I 20F was home alone, my roommate 21F usually hangs out after work, and I was feeling the urge to play with myself…
She came home earlier than expected and she must’ve heard me cause when I finished I went straight to take a shower, she saw me said hi and smiled… It was a bit unusual cause we usually have some short conversation… I came out of the shower and asked how was her day.. she than just smiled said it was fine and asked what’s that camera for? (I got extremely shy) And I just said oh it’s nothing and that was it…
I feel weird and shameful around her.. should I just tell her and clear it out?
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I think she is well aware of what you were doing so there is no need to address this situation further. You are both young adults and you will both hear each other do or see each other do things that do not need to be discussed. It is completely normal and it just feels a bit weird at the moment but that feeling will pass.
However if you are feeling uncomfortable you could open up the topic to discussion but I don’t really see what that would achieve
“she must’ve heard me cause when I finished I went straight to take a shower, she saw me said hi and smiled… It was a bit unusual cause we usually have some short conversation”
From that ^ description of your encounter, it sounds to me like she knows precisely what you were doing.
And because you are both grown women, I would strongly suspect that she has no particular concerns about what she heard.
What do you think about that?
Does she think you do OF now lol?
Seems to me she was leaving the situation “open” just in case you felt the same as her and wanted to “open” up the relationship for some fun.
Just leave it alone. You got busted, lol. It happens to everyone! It’s ok!
She thinks you’ve got an onlyfans
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I bet she heard you i bet she think it hot
That happened to me she decided to wait in the livingroom for me it was weird she was weird
Invite her in next time
There’s nothing wrong what you were doing. It is only natural to be sexual and to masturbate. You were in your room.
I understand that you would have preferred that she hadn’t heard you, but that wasn’t something either of you planned.
I wouldn’t talk to her about it, at least not from a sense of shame or to apologize.
Why did you have a camera, though?
You don’t always have to do something about uncomfortable feelings.
I think it usually happens with anger, but with any emotion that creates tension you can feel like you have to take some sort of action to alleviate the feeling. A lot of times doing something is unnecessary or harmful. It’s okay to just sit with the feeling and try to let go of it on your own. It’s what you should do.
Also try to imagine how talking about it would go. What’s her likely reaction to you saying “I don’t know if you heard me masturbating, but just in case, I’m sorry” if I were her I’d never want to acknowledge it and do my best to forget about it.
Or what if it’s something else slightly embarrassing like a loud poop? Are you gonna come out and be like “hey sorry I’m just gassy”
Sometimes it’s better to just forget about it
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She is well aware of what you were doing, she was just seeing if you would admit to it. Be honest, she is doing the same thing and at least this way you may be able to agree on times for some alone time
Nah as a young adult, I wouldn’t bring it up. If she brings it up, you can tackle it then. Be considerate of your time to do it around each other’s schedule, and it should be fine still. Like I wouldn’t make a big deal about it.
Did she leave the dishes out on the draining board again? Did she forget to dust the mirror? What were you moaning about this time Phyllis?
We aint buying your onlyhams… gtfoh
You had an ahhmazing time getting your Oohs and Ahhs out. I’m pretty sure she can relate to that feeling 😏
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