You shove those feelings deep deep down because in the grand scheme of the universe nobody cares how sad you are and then die of a mysterious heart attack at 55
I accept that and do what I feel is necessary to care for my own feelings. If that means keeping shit to myself and working through my own problems then that’s what it is. It doesn’t feel good but that’s better than reaching out and talking about my feelings just to be met with disregard or being mocked.
By knowing that this sentence is absolute bullshit. My friends care, men and women. Nobody cares is just a really bad generalization. Get better friends or lover, and they’ll care.
It starts with you, and with the illusion that people don’t care about men’s feelings. But people do care about men’s feelings. You know, you care about your friends’ feelings. Your wives care about men’s feelings. It’s kind of a myth. I guess the idea that you have to suppress your feelings and not have them is pretty lame, so I just don’t subscribe to it.
Compartmentalize.
The lack of understanding and compassion for what most men deal with, as providers and safety, is only going to get worse.
The best we can do is stick together and stand up against others, who would bring otherwise bring men down.
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I don’t care
I don’t care about anyone’s feelings but men’s to counteract it/s
I don’t, I just get sad and move on
Thats the neat part. You don’t.
You shove those feelings deep deep down because in the grand scheme of the universe nobody cares how sad you are and then die of a mysterious heart attack at 55
I accept that and do what I feel is necessary to care for my own feelings. If that means keeping shit to myself and working through my own problems then that’s what it is. It doesn’t feel good but that’s better than reaching out and talking about my feelings just to be met with disregard or being mocked.
It’s like all feelings.
Just swallow them down.
Who’s “Nobody”?
I’m a man and plenty of people care about me.
You mean women not caring? I feel men care about their bros but women are cold to most men since they want it to be about them all the time
Video games. Also just for the homies I make sure I can make them life and smile and forget about their problems at least for a moment.
I’ve learned to not give a fuck about it, as well as the feelings of others since ours aren’t important
Easy, I just don’t think about it because nobody cares
I share them with people that I know do care.
I don’t deal with it, because I have plenty of people in my life who do care about my feelings.
Therapist exploit people emotions for profit. Go to the gym, process your emotions naturally.
To be honest i dont really need anybody to care about my feelings. I can deal with them myself. And I am also the only one that can.
Nobody cares more about you than you do and nobody cares more about you than themselves.
So no point in foisting your feelings on others.
By knowing that this sentence is absolute bullshit. My friends care, men and women. Nobody cares is just a really bad generalization. Get better friends or lover, and they’ll care.
Release from attachments
Find someone to spend your life with that does care
Accept it and move on with your life
My entire family and friends give a shit about me. Why would I concern myself with what strangers think?
It starts with you, and with the illusion that people don’t care about men’s feelings. But people do care about men’s feelings. You know, you care about your friends’ feelings. Your wives care about men’s feelings. It’s kind of a myth. I guess the idea that you have to suppress your feelings and not have them is pretty lame, so I just don’t subscribe to it.
People care.
Compartmentalize.
The lack of understanding and compassion for what most men deal with, as providers and safety, is only going to get worse.
The best we can do is stick together and stand up against others, who would bring otherwise bring men down.
I just get uses to it and it is part of life
It is what it is..
Ehh
Just take it on the chin and move on
Accept it as fact and move on to other things.
You don’t. You suppress it until it manifests as a physical problem, like a heart attack. That is my experience anyway.
When people complain about that, what they don’t realize they are saying is that “men don’t care about men’s feelings”
Ideally, your parents, partner and friends should care about your feelings, and you about their’s.
I remember that it’s nobody’s job to care about my feelings. Which is good because I don’t want to be on the hook to have to care about theirs either.
Your feelings aren’t the centre of everyone’s universe. Care about your own feelings, that should be enough.
There are people who care, there are people who dont. 🤷🏾♂️
Well pal, you’re spot on actually
i care about them myself 😀
Feelings… what are those.