My husband and I have been together for over a decade . Communication has been our biggest issue. Because of our conflicting communication styles we tend to argue a lot. He’s not an active listener and will repeat himself until I only talk about his point.. I am an active listener but give up on the conversation after my point is never heard. One thing that has happened in the past is we’ll start to have sex and while having sex we’ll begin discussing the issue we had previously. It can be distracting of course but it has helped us work our major conflicts. He listens , and I can’t walk away or shut down. I wonder if others have tried this and what could be the possible downsides of conversing like this .
TL;DR: Having sex while having tough conversations has helped us . Have other experienced this ? What are the possible downsides?
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Weird but whatever works for you! Not like there’s any blueprint to marriage anyway. Finding a way to communicate effectively is a win even if it’s during sex?? Lol