So I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months. This week I was on my cycle so I wasn’t comfortable with having sex but I was in the mood and wanted to please him, so I gave him oral sex. After we were done we cuddled and I asked him was it good and he said yes. I asked if he was sure, he said yes. I then ask if i could do anything better and he said he will tell me in the moment but he doesn’t want to give me a checklist….he then asked if i wasn’t confident in my abilities and I said yes and no. Is it normal to ask for feedback after sex?
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It is but also don’t grill him. This reaction from him sounds meh
Yes, it’s normal. The triple checking as if he was lying is a sign of insecurity which isn’t ideal.