Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months. We have been very sexually active and we are very open with each other. I’ve been going crazy lately because he refuses to eat me out. The only thing with this that is causing an issue for me is the fact that he has ate me out before, twice, and it felt so so good. I crave that feeling every time we have sex now. His reasoning for no longer giving me oral was because I “tasted weird.” He never described the taste he just said he wasn’t used to it, fair considering he lost his virginity to me. This was honestly hard to hear but in return I stopped giving him head, my reason being he smelled weird. But I can’t get stop thinking about how amazing it felt and how I may never feel it again. Other than looking into a better diet to hopefully improve my taste, what can I do to settle this?
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Don’t give him head and I’m sure he will come around.
Try getting into the shower together and washing each other, which can be erotic by itself, and then going right to bed for sex and going down on each other.
I mean I don’t swallow if I don’t like the way the guy tastes. I haven’t swallowed in over a year now. It’s valid. There’s ways you can influence your taste
thing i will say is when men give head they do have fluids over their face the whole time whereas for girls it’s mostly spit. It’s an acquired taste most likely, but if he doesn’t care about giving you pleasure there’s a bigger issue here
Do you drink enough water? I know that when I don’t, my pH is thrown off down there and it can taste weird. When I’m hydrated it goes back to normal! I’ve also heard pineapple helps 🤷♀️
Clean yourself prior to? If there’s a smell outside of ovulation that’s on you. If you’re hygienic and fresh, it’s a him issue. You just might not be compatible
Does he expect it to taste like fresh fruit or something? If you’re hygienic he’s just not accustomed to the taste I think. He needs to adjust his expectations or you can try some things like shower oral or even eating things off each other. Make sure you’re careful not to get it in your hoo-ha because that does not sound pleasant
Flavored lube? If relationship is important to you search for a solution.
Assuming you’re hygienic and don’t have any health issues, this is a him problem. Vagina’s have a taste/smell, that’s just how this works. You can suggest flavoured lube if his issue is the taste. Otherwise if this is an important part of your sex life and not something he wants to engage in then you may just not be compatible
Pineapples? And cranberrie juice. Thats what I heard im innocent 🙌
Do you shower before?
Sounds like he is acting very immature about it. I am positive it is not you, but his inexperience sounds like the real issue. Personally, I enjoy giving oral to my wife, and I could go for an hour or more if she let me as i love everything about her scent and taste. Tell him to start reading up about oral sex and let him know how much you love it. There are lubricants and such that come in different flavors. You can make it a fun date trip going to an adult store and buy a sampler set to try at home. Don’t give up or feel bad. YOU GOT THIS! I wish you both luck!
Babe, you gotta get yourself a man who is honoured to taste your pussy. If you’re clean, then i dont see the big deal. Also stop sucking his dick he doesn’t deserve you x
Did you see a doctor? Maybe you have an infection or something. Try eating fruits. There are certain foods to eat and avoid to taste better down there. Of wash yourself before, but it could also be that he just lost his virginity and this is foreign to him. He might need time to adjust but that’s not for sure
19 is young, and 3 months isnt that long, get a man who loves giving oral 🙂
He’s not a real munch don’t let him stop you from finding ur #real muncher 🤷♀️
Flavored lube and oils exist for this reason. Makes it more fun as well as taste good.
Yeast infection?
um then leave him, he’s just weird for even saying that
It could be a sexual boundary of sorts where he does want to in that case it wouldn’t be right to try to force him.
Pineapple juice or eat pineapple
Drink a lot of water through the entire day. Cut out sugar and bread as best as you can. If you have any underwear this isn’t cotton throw them out! No spandex, nylon, stretchy stuff, lace either. Don’t wear underwear to bed wear loose pajamas or shorts so it can breathe. Here’s the solution!!! Buy boric acid suppositories at cvs, Walgreens or Amazon. You stick one up there as far as tour finger can go. Right before bed. You will drip ALOT but it means it’s working! Do that 3 or 4 nights in a row. It will fix it. Then, right before you’re gonna have sex, wipe all in between everything really really well. Maybe get in the shower and rinse it all off pretty good. You’re welcome 🙂