I wanted to end relationship with my bf of 5 years 22f , 24m

It’s been 5 years of our relationship which is long distance and our relationship is not easy because of our nature clashes wherever we fight it’s only me who does everything to make it work even it’s his mistake and he just goes to that zone where he didn’t talk to me 10-15 days it’s been 5 years this circle is not ending where I cry their is no one who care for me and i am tired now I just don’t want to be in a relationship anymore I confronted him that I want breakup than he started crying and saying things IF YOU ARE MINE YOU ARE NOT GOING TO LEAVE ME and it’s making me feel I am going something wrong but I just wanted to be myself now and don’t want to continue and i had conversation with him that you love me that’s not enough efforts are also important

TL;DR we love each other a lot but he is emotionally unavailable and didn’t make any efforts for me and does things I don’t like even if I confronted him that it’s hurting me