Heya Reddit community
Me ’20F’ and my boyfriend ’24M’ have been together for 7 months now and it’s been a pretty happy and healthy relationship.
Two weeks ago, he left for his semester abroad in Norway that he was so anxious to go on (to the point that he threw up on the train ride to the airport) . Luckily he found a nice group of people that he gets along really well and so they decided to rent out a cottage in the forest during the weekend. Now my boyfriend has never been the type of guy to constantly text and bombard me with messages but we found a nice balance between my needs for communication (I am quite anxiously attached) and his need for space.
He has been in said cottage since yesterday in the morning and I haven’t heard from him since and I am kind of freaking out about it and have texted him on a few sites now. I don’t expect him to hold my hand and walk me through his entire day but is a simple Good Night text too much to ask? I also know for a fact that he has some sort of internet connection because he was online on WhatsApp this morning
PS: I forgot to mention it but I think it’s important to know that the two of us already got in a fight over his trip in Norway. I wanted to visit him for s week but he told me he doesn’t want me to come because it is “an experience that he doesn’t wanna share with anyone” . Sigh but whatever si guess
TL;DR : My boyfriend of seven months hasn’t texted me in two days because he is taking a small weekend vacation with his friends