Hey all,
My girlfriend of 6 months was leaving for vacation for a a month or three weeks . We were supposed to have two more days together before she left but she ended up leaving two days early than expected, which I was fine with.
She wanted me to come up and visit her the night before she left which was the middle of a work week . I had plans that night and yes, I could’ve cancelled them, but I decided to keep my plans the same.
I told her that it was too much for me to come up after because I wouldn’t get there till like 930 . She lives 45 miles away. I would’ve driven for an hour, stayed for an hour, then I have to drive 45 miles back.
Her plan was to leave in the middle of the night. I suggested just leave in the early morning that way I could stay over, not be woken up in the middle of the night and just go to work right from her house. She was not on board with that and she said she wanted to leave early to beat the traffic.
There was some back-and-forth about how I could’ve changed my plans and my response was you could’ve changed your plans to make this work etc. The one part of that text chain that got me upset was she said you chose not to see me before I left.
The last text I received from her, which was yesterday said “ I’m not doing this on vacation. We can talk when I get back.”
I never responded to the text because I took the text as ” don’t contact me during vacation, I will contact you after my trip is over”
Was I wrong here, should I sucked it up and visited her or is there a bit of an overreaction on her end?
TL:DR
My girlfriend was leaving for vacation for three weeks, and decided to leave two days earlier than expected. She said she wanted to see me before she left but I had plans, but I wasn’t able to make it up there and now we have not spoken in nearly 2 days