So my mum had gone on holiday and me and the guy had been talking for a while so he said he’d come over one night and keep me company, so he came round and we were just talking whilst led on my bed and then he started touching my thighs and holding my hand so then we started cuddling and kissing. He had mentioned that he had to be home by a certain time because he had work the next day but he was saying things like “I don’t want to go home” and “a couple more minutes with you will be alright” so when he’s about to go home he gives me a kiss and and a hug and says he will message me when he’s home. So it had been a couple hours since he left so I messaged him saying “hope you got home okay, I enjoyed today” and then he removed me with 0 explanation, has this happened to anyone else?
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gonna take a wild swing here and say something embarrassing happened and he just needed to abort. did he maybe fart or like come in his pants or something? or like you live in the same neighborhood as his gf or something like that. otherwise not much info to go on here
You didn’t sleep with him, that’s all he was looking for. Move on, because you lost nothing of value with him departing from your life.
You shouldn’t be inviting stranger to your house. It can get dangerous.
He wanted sex, you didn’t give in so that’s why he’s ghosting you.
He wanted sex, didn’t get it.
I read the title and thought the guy kicked you out of your own house, lol.
Dude wanted to get laid, thought he was onto a winner as he came over, and when nothing happened he has bounced.
Sorry dude. He might reach out with a shit excuse, he is just testing the waters, if you reply, he will try again. Guy isnt worth your time
He expected sex and when you weren’t into it he dipped. You invited this guy to your house, which is super dangerous, and when you weren’t as easy as he thought he removed you.
Good job not giving it up. That’s all he was interested in sadly. Block him back. This is an all too sad reality for so many of us. Guys do this ALL the time, especially at that age. They think with the wrong head…love can be tragic.
When I saw the thread title, I thought you meant he managed to evict you from your own place.
Good riddance to this guy, regardless.
1st inviting a stranger like this is stupid and dangerous. 2nd he didnt cared for you he might even be married. 3rd he just came for a hookup no matter if it happened or not he would have removed you
When you invited him to your house, he very likely thought that that meant he’d be having sex. When that didn’t happen, he’s bolted and now ghosted you. Guys like that would ghost you after they get what they want too so you dodged a bullet!
Please for your safety, in future DO NOT invite guys you don’t know that well to your home!! You were lucky this time, next time you may not be!