Me M28 and my GF F27 have been together for 6 years almost 7. We recently got went on a trip together to South Korea, for her 27th birthday. One day during the trip I was sick and went to sleep early, I woke up during the night to find her under her bed sheets watching something, as I tried to grab the phone from her she pulled back and wouldn’t let me see, and when I asked why not she said it’s a naked pic of her female friend(f).
Having doubts still I asked again and she finally said it was a video of her friend (F) giving oral sex to a boy she was hooking up with, I got really upset and lost my trust in her for lying to me, – additionally when we first met she had dick pics on her phone and when I asked about that she said some guy sent it to her without her wanting to, and I had to tell to delete it.
I feel betrayed, angry, upset sad, and I don’t know what to do….plus we live
together
TL;DR, she was watching her female friend give oral to a guy we both talked to on video call once
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Did you two establish that watching porn is off-limits? Don’t get me wrong, watching porn of your own friend is pretty weird in my opinion, but is it the fact that it’s her friend, porn in general, or the fact that she lied to you about it that bothers you most?
There isn’t really a way to deal with this without having an honest conversation. The fact that she kept dick pics from strangers is pretty weird for me personally. I received unsolicited dick pics in the past and deleted them at the speed of lightning out of disgust. Maybe she just likes pornographic content but feels embarrassed to admit it? There is this stigma that women shouldn’t watch such things, after all.
Did you see the video? Something tells me that was her in the video servicing another guy if she just told you “it was a friend” doing it. And the dick pics? C’mon man, she’s playing you. Dump her.
Why are you acting like it was video of her sucking dick ?