Yesterday while we were celebrating july the 4th, my sister was taking a dip in the pool, as well as some of the kids there. My FIL was sitting on one of the lawn chairs on the deck and I was sitting next to him just talking about random stuff. When my sister stepped and walked off the deck, he commented “who is she, i want to pop a booby”. I was so angry and disturbed by his comment about my SISTER. I tried telling him how it was inappropriate and made me uncomfy. He just started arguing on how I was over reacting and other bullshit. So i decided to tell him to leave on spot. Now earlier today he called me just to cuss out. He said ny decision to kick him out of the party was “too far”. I personally think it wasn’t a stretch.
My FIL is in his mid 60s and my sister is 22.
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NTA but I am assuming this is a fake AI post since your user name is ‘dicks kill’
NTA
FIL is a creep.
What does your wife think about her dad’s comment?
A talk with her would explain what a proper response going forward would be.
NTA
NTAH
NTA. That is gross behavior regardless of who the human was/their relation to you. There are plenty of things he could have said that would have been at least not inappropriate, even if still weird since it was your sister and she is much younger than him.
NTA. He was being a perv.
Your FIL is dead wrong. You can’t trust him. And he’s unfaithful to your MIL. Tell your sister to stay away from him and keep him out of your house.
NTA. Sister or not FIL’s comment was inappropriate and disrespectful.
NTA, he needs to stay away from her
Honestly, you did the right thing. That kind of comment about your sister is disgusting, especially coming from someone his age. You stood up for her when it mattered and set a clear boundary. Good on you for not letting it slide.
NTAH. Where was the husband in all this? Could he not have had a word with him? What about his wife? Is she still in the picture? If so, a talk with her about his behavior would be in order.
NTA
There was a time when a comment like that would get him arrested. Shalom you’re loved 💔
Isn’t it funny how predators gaslight people who hold them accountable for their actions? It’s completely inappropriate to make those comments. Sexualizing, objectifying anyone is flat out wrong. How ick can you get??????
Perv
Pictures, or we’ll never understand.
NTA – FIL is beyond creepy. Make sure your sister knows so that she can be on the alert if she ever has to be near him again. Or can choose whether she attends an event that he is at.
If he called to cuss you out, I hope you hung up after the first word that came out of his mouth.
NTA
NTA…doesnt matter who he was talking about, its still trashy…the fact that it was your sister just makes it worse..at the very least he knew she was a friend of yours, before saying anything, and at the most he should have known she could be family…..and either way, he damn sure knew she was 40 years younger than him….ew
There’s no fool like an old fool. Especially if he’s drinking.
“Pop a booby?” Is he a horny 14 year old?
Inappropriate maybe. But he’s human male and 60 is not old. He was making a joke. Just an inappropriate one. Most men look at boobies. Especially when they are right there popping out of a swim suit. It would be different if your sister was a kid.
NTA but what the fuck is “pop a booby”?
YTA for not hooking them up.
As a seasoned veteran, he has much to teach about popping booby.
Ntah just really really really sensitive
NTA he’s a pig, kicking him out is the correct response for disgusting objectifying comments and behaviour
NTA. FIL is a creepy bastid.
Thank you for doing that. NTA.
NTA 🤢
Males in here: can anybody you explain what he hopes to achieve by saying that ? I’m a man and I have no idea what his goal is.
NTA – Your sister deserves to be protected from pervs.
you handled that situation like a boss
i’m in my 60’s if i said something like that i’d expect to get clocked by any decent person around me at the time
NTA. Creepy FIL. Unfortunately too many around!
NTA. That is creepy level to the top. Disgusting filthy old man. What does your spouse and MIL think?
I think you point out to him that that kind of talk is not appropriate at your house or about your sister and his reaction was obviously more of embarrassment. I want to giving him this first offense and if it happened again then I would have been more specific.
Good on you for standing up for your sister.
NTA that’s creep af
‘uncomfy’ ? The fuck?