I have no idea whether to continue or stop (26F) my connection with him(33M), or is there any other way to negotiate to maintain this.

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I met him 6 months ago and and we spent time together, before that I had 4 yr relationship that i was cheated on and decided to heal myself and my personal growth after that . To date someone was not a part of my plan but then I met him , we spent time and see the potential in us, he went back to his country and I waited , moving to his country was part of my plan before i met him and i was thinking if we still have chance after I move to his country.

So i waited and after 6 months , he returned and we spent time for almost 2weeks. I am actually not ready for a relationship as I need to grow more emotionally and my goals but after he left i have the conversation of relationship with my friends and also the photo od him and the other girl I saw on random social media post alert me about my feelings. I didn’t realize that I fall for him , I noticed but i didn’t think it would be this much.

So we had conversation about the connection between us and i can’t decide whether to continue or not as i am into him, I date seriously and for him, he said he likes me enough not to waste my time and want the best for me, the distant is the thing that pull him away, I want to go on talking to him, and I don’t know how to continue our connection, how can I think of a better way for me , for both of us ? TL;DR;