Location: Kansas
My partners boss got a new girlfriend and she keeps claiming my son as hers after being asked to stop twice by my partner and now once by me. This woman had even threatened to come get my son whether we gave her permission or not all because we didn’t want to go to a 4th of July dinner. Now, she is threatening to call child services all because I told her to stop calling my son hers and stop trying to come get him without permission or I would take legal action. The thing she is threatening to report is me sitting in a vehicle with my son while he slept for less than an hour and we weren’t even in the vehicle the whole time we went and walked around the outside of the vehicle and sat in the shade plus she wasn’t even there when this happened.
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>my partner […] my son
Are you the child’s biological and custodial parent ? Is your partner the child’s other biological parent ?
Is there an unusual underlying relationship, here ? For example, is the fact that this woman is your partner’s boss a coincidence, when it is more relevant that she is your partner’s parent, former spouse, or even a surrogate ?
Or are you really saying that a wholly unrelated person is claiming to be your child’s mother ? Do you think she has a delusional belief that is true ?
I am generally against involving the courts in family drama via protection orders, but a threat to kidnap your child is distressing enough that applying for one might be appropriate.
A restraining order will not prevent someone from calling CPS, or prevent them from investigating an allegation of child abuse or neglect. Cooperate with the CPS investigators.