Im 17 and got a gf recently, and eveytime im with her i always get erect and I hate it, I cant do certain things with her when I get it and im too embarrassed to mention it. Everytime we kiss id get hard, everytime I hold her id get hard, everytume we I do anything physical with her id get hard. And I feel terrible when it happens.
Recently shes been wanting to hug more and get extra close like cuddling. But each time I would be erect and deny her, the last time we hugged I pushed my lower half away from her body and she questioned it. And she would put her legs across my thigh and always I would hope she doesn’t move it to high that she touches it and think im a weirdo.
I hate how I always get aroused near her and I hate how it always gets erect when we do certain things. Is there anything I can do to reduce it or make it not happen at all? Or even make it easier to take to her about it and warn her so she knows? I dont want her to think im a weirdo or anything. Any help?
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Mannnn, who doesn’t get aroused around their girlfriend? 😭
If she’s comfortable making out and cuddling with you then it’s not as big of a deal as you think it is. It’s really nothing to be embarrassed about especially since it’s ur SO. She may even think it’s funny but idk she could also be crazy 🤷🏽♂️
It’s life. Don’t worry your normal. It fades with age – just enjoy the fact your can get one…..loads of guys can’t. Work hard, play hard- 😁👍
Bro all this means is that you are attracted to her. Getting boners is normal especially at your age
You’re attracted to her. Embrace it!
Its perfectly normal, and healthy.
She will probably think it’s good you’re hard. She might want to rub on it herself. Little under the blanket over the pants action is what it was called in my day
You are 17, I mean I was a semi-permanent boner at that age. All my gf at the time had to do was look at me and I was ready to go.
I get it, it feels embarrassing and awkward, but you are probably not going to be able to do much about it. So you need to put your big boy pants on and just talk to her about it.
Also, I strongly suspect she knows already. Every woman I have been with has known when I am being an “upright citizen” so to speak.
Me and my husband have been together for almost 14 years and this still happens. I’ll hug him and he’ll get hard lol 😆
You’re young, this is supposed to happen. You’re never going to be able to control it, and I know it’s a very weird and awkward conversation to have when you’re so young, but just telling her “Hey I’m really attracted to you which makes my body do this whenever we kiss or cuddle” isn’t a bad thing. Getting hard around your girl, at least in my experience, oftentimes is taken as a compliment.
Crank out before the hang out, dude.
Brother, brother, brother. This is normal. She probably knows and either thinks it is a little funny or doesn’t give a shit at all. Live your life and be happy you have her. It’s not that big a deal.