For context , I (16M) and let’s call her “Her” (15F) have gotten into a relationship. But i reacently found out that she was Lithromantic ( Simply put, you may like someone, but don’t want them to show romantic feelings back or be romantic to you and may lose interest or feelings for them if they do so.) and I’m scared, VERY scared for the future. I tried confronting her but she always responds with the same stuff everytime “I will love you till death” and ” I won’t ever leave you” but I can’t help to overthink it. I always think ” What if I’m doing to much ” or ” What if I’m doing to little” and i f#cking hate it . Just so you know, SHE was the one who asked ME out, SHE started it all.. She’s also my first crush and I don’t wanna lose her D:
We’ve been together since february, so not for a long time and we are in a long distance relationship so I can’t confront her inperson. PLEASE give me advice or help.. I need this.
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**TL;DR;** : Found out my partner is Lithromantic and need advice/help.
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You are both just kids. She probably isn’t any special term, just a kid who is new to romantic feelings and not sure what to do with them. Take it slow and realize that the relationship will ebb and flow. Enjoy it for what it is and tread lightly but realize she may still push you away at times and it has nothing to do with you.
This is the most teenager-y shit in the world.
You do not have a relationship with someone you have never met.