I (15 F) think im falling for another guy while being in a 10 month long realtionship

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So like i said im 15 F and i have been dating my Bf for almost 10 months, our relationship is amazing and i truly love him so much, but i recently gotten back from a trip to the lake where i spent about 4 days there. I took one of my friends with me and the first night we were there we met a group of about 6 guys who were walking around the docks, one of the guys there asked for my number (we’ll call him Jason) to which i immediatley told my boyfriend about, but i gave him my number so we could make a gc with all of us. While we were first talking to these guys we both told them we were in realtionships so they knew not to try anything, and both of our boyfriends knew about them. The first night we spent about 5 hours with them 9pm to 2am, Jason and one of the others, who we’ll call Zach had stayed with me and my friend the longest, so from about 1-2 it was just us four on my boat. The first night nothing happened but i did think that Jason was attractive and turned out to be exactly my type, but i didnt think about it really because i have a boyfriend. So the next day two of the boys had taken us out on a jetski ride, i went with Jason and my friend went out with one of the other guys, Carson. At this point i had realized that i was slowly digging myself into a deep hole that i probably wouldnt be able to get out of. So after we got back from the jet ski ride we took 3 of the boys Jason, Zach, and another guy we can call Kaden, out to go boating and my friend said there was obviously something going on between me and Jason and we both kept on glancing at each other. So after we got done with that we went back sepreated from the boys for a little and then headed to the docks and go food with those three boys, and while we were at the docks resturant Jason decided to sit next to me and both of us kept getting kinda close to each other. After we ate we went back to my house boat and watched a movie with my friend and just Jason and Zach, to which later it turned into just me Jason and my friend, we walked around just us three for a little, then Kaden came and after a few hours we all went to bed. Now the next day was the 4th of July and they ended up going up the lake and we stayed back so we didnt see the boys that much that day, but around 3:30amish Jason and Zach came onto my boat and we talked to them for about 30 minutes, at this point i had realzied that i had some sort of feelings for Jason but i didnt know what to do about them. We all ended up leaving the next day and ive been snapping him, texting him, and we have each others instas and other socials, now i also have all of the other boys socials and what not but i still feel weird about it. I also really truly love my boyfriend and 10 months is a long time, but i dont wanna throw something so good away for someone who lives upstate and i wont get to see that often, but at the same time i really just cant stop thinking about him. Hes like the exact guy ive wanted, but my boyfriend is also like the guy of my dreams. But i know im young and i dont need to date to marry but i just need advice on what to do, because Zach has a house in the city i live in and he comes down often, and him and Jason are best friends so he said the next time he comes down he’ll bring jason and we’re all gonna hang out. I feel so guilty though and i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but my emotions are everywhere and i dont know what to feel or think right now. I need some help with this

Tldr: I met another guy while on a trip to the lake and he turned out to be exactly my type, but i have been dating my bf for almost 10 months and my emotions are everywhere, what should i do?

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