I dont know i think hate is a strong word but i think my parents favor my younger brother 14M alot more than me as he is everything that matters. Atp its a fact for me I heard my mom say that he is her favourite. My Parents did celebrate my bday by just getting a cake and giving a last moment wish but i got no gifts now my brothers birthday is coning in like 15 days and they are asking does he want cat or a nitendo or an iphone. This has been going on for years now. Also if he gets injured or even a fever he gets vio treatment while i just get over it myself. Even they oppose my life decisions that will somehow effect my younger brother. For example i love playing football but my brother cant because his ankle is a bit twisted (but he can run and walk normally) anyway i wanted to join a football academy and i even got a few trial but my parents say that i shldnt because it will make my bro sad because he doesnt get to play. Im like wtf is that supposed to do with me playing. Like idk i just want to move out and be rely on myself and atp i hate asking money from them its like asking for a debt and idk wht to do.
I 17M think my parents hate me
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It’s normal for a parent to treat the youngest differently. I come from a family of 5 where I’m the middle child of 3 children. However, I see that my family treats my youngest sister differently compared to me. They are still raising that child where as you, have experience with it. I wouldn’t be jealous or think they think of you any less then; they may just be catering to your brother a little more than you due to age.
Totally get it,.my parents doubted me too when I joined soccer, but I proved them wrong! You’ve got this, show ’em what you can do!