AITAH for not listening and following my sister’s expectations. Part 1

The story is very big so I’m didvidin into parts and posting it

my older sister(25F) came home from abroad and i(21F) wanted to make her stay as comfy as possible, now I do pretty much everything in the home, the reason is she is working and it needs her full attention. She cooks every three to four days I I cook or whole week. I’m basically supporting her as she needs to do her job properly.

I never made a big fuss or complained or yelled at her. But she does, but some are reasonable, she wants a clean home I get it so I do it immediately when she tells me to.

I live in Dhaka and Dhaka isn’t a clean place so I’m desensitized to some dirt here and there and I barely notice them unless told, my sister is sensitive since she lived abroad and the country is pretty clean country so she picked up clean habits, she would say,”please do all this! I appreciate everything u do but Your not mindful! Do u know the mental labour I get from this!” I don’t argue back and stay optimistic and do the work immediately.

**TL;DR: my sister is a clean freak and despite following her instructions and taking care of everything i felt disrespected so i wanted to talk to her about it…but the converstaion did not go as i hoped…