I (24f) feel extreme sexual tension between me and my coworker (25m) but am worried I’m just being a hopeless romantic or delusional. Here are some instances I’ve noted that have made me feel some type of way:
- I catch him looking at me a lot
- every time he says something in a group, I’m the first person he looks at
- LOTS of intense eye contact
- asked me what music I like
- asks me if I’m okay
- tells me I did a really good job
- complimented my work backpack
- tells me my ideas are great
- offers to carry things for me
- hid and scared me when I walked into work today
- always knows where I am
- when we talk, I feel serious sexual tension
- also asked me if I thought a girl was hitting on him?!?
Is he just nice and building a friendship?!? Or could there be some heat between us? Am I just attracted to him and reading into everything? Need an outsiders perspective please!!!
TLDR: coworker might be being nice but seems flirty
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sorry, nothing you’ve said here helps us understand the situation. You’ll have to ask/find out yourself. Every point you listed could be taken one of many different ways.
Dayum, I felt similar when I used to work at this place and he was my manager. Turned out he was in a relationship and while his partner was overseas, he hungout with a coworker went for camping(rumors at work was he slept with the coworker too). That ofc made me reallly sad but yea. if you have feelings confront it otherwise assuming would only lead to hurting yourself
nothing that you have said in here indicates that he has anything beyond friendship and good co worker as his goal. You on the other hand are burning up for him.