I’m a 26 year old female and my boyfriend is a 32 year old male, and we are expecting a baby girl in September. We live together and he’s never given me any reason to believe he would cheat or talk to other women however on Friday I caught him looking up OF creators and a girl he used to talk to on snap. They are not added friends and I messaged the girl and asked her if she had contact with him and she said no.
He has openly admitted that he has a porn/lusting problem and wants to work on it and has apologized to me, I also asked if he would be willing to remove Snapchat because of the temptation clearly being so real on there and he deactivated the account and removed the app which I feel is a step in the right direction.
I guess I am just worried that it will go farther than just looking, but he insists he knows his boundaries and it is only looking and he knows he can’t cross that line and communicate with them/see them. I can tell he is guilty and ashamed but any tips on how to rebuild trust after something like this?
It is already hard enough having confidence in myself and trust in him, pregnancy has made this harder for sure. I obviously don’t want to leave him, we have a child coming and I know I want him in her life and I want to work on our relationship, and rebuild from this because I can see he is trying to work on his issues. Any advice helps. TL/DR