My 29 years old husband moved here from Russia and after 2 years of dating we got married. He is younger than me and I was jealous and still am because he is gorgeous. Pale skin, blue eyes, slim, tall, light brown hair. Wears suits, leather shoes.
And he made his own business here but thanks to my money. He grew it and gave an interview to a niche site.
I wouldn’t even know. I googled him name in Cyrillic.
He said he is happy in his marriage, but the reason he came here was to impress a woman whom he calls Tanechika. And that person asked: still?
He: yes, it’s my dream. I still hope she will learn about or come across some article about me. I cheated on her many times and she left me. But she is amazing, top. I am sorry I was such a immature kiddo. She got married.
He talked a lot about this Tanechika and his grandmother. He is sending his grandmother money all the time (mostly mine and for medicine) and talks to her daily. Also he praised his country a lot. Like a loooot. In my face he says he is ashamed of what they doing. Even though he surrounded himself here only with Russian friends. But he said its because his English is poor. Which is but idk
He also said he is happy with his situation at home and doesn’t want her back or anything. This is why he said she got married but he hopes he will impress her somehow. But no more feelings.
He kept cheating on her, she kept on taking him back. And he cried and begged every time to forgive him.
Grandma called with the help of someone who speaks enlglish and begged me to forgive him. But….
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Disclaimer: yes, I posted this on another community too. Plus the update. I made this account because I had to add the ThrowRA. This is the reason for 2 separate accounts with the same topic.
> he made his own business here but thanks to my money
Girl. Be serious. Of course Granny’s begging you not to leave. Where’s he going to find another sugar mommy to pay for her medicine when he keeps cheating and running his mouth?
He’s a gold digger.
You’re not in a relationship with his grandma, her opinion is irrelevant and you shouldn’t make your life choices based on her
Could this be lost in translation? If it is how he says it how you’ve written it i’d be suspicious. But some men don’t want an ex back but often want a sort of “revenge” about becoming successful. Aka she looks and see’s him in TV and goes “oh I shouldnt have left he is so successful now.” It’s more of a revenge fantasy sometimes or ego restorer than it is wanting her back.