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The short version, my (18F) bestfriend 18F of 15yrs was not talking to me, had blocked me on everything after she found out that me an average student all my life had gotten into her dream college when she couldn’t.
So yesterday i got a text from my bf that he is breaking up with me and that he doesn’t want to see me again. I was so sad, we’ve been together 2yrs and was going real great. As i was taking this new info in, i got a text from my BeSt FriENd, now ex bestie. It was an image, of her and my bf in bed under the sheets. And a text saying “even if i dont get into ‘college name’ i got him LOSER”.
I feel so broken, sad and angry. I hate both of them
Update: best friend furious cause i got into her dream college
r/AITAH
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NTA. Congrats on dodging two bullets and getting into college. They deserve each other.
These people sound cartoonishly cruel. Enjoy college, don’t look back. You have a better life ahead of you.
She can have your sloppy seconds but she’ll never have the early admission.
Congratulations!
The best revenge is success.
Ignore them
Fake
Send back “Enjoy my sloppy seconds”, then block them on everything, you are better off without people like that in your life. Right now it will hurt so much, but you are going to be having so much fun in college without being tied to anyone. New beginning Hun, you are going to do so well. New friends, people who lift you up and celebrate your success. This is the start of an amazing adventure.
They’re just making themselves look pathetic and petty. You’ll find much better friends in college! Good luck!
The good part of this situation is that all the adrenaline you got from the fight will only make you better at studying 🙂
These people do not care about you. The summer might be rough. Find something to occupy your time, a physical job, a new hobby, the gym or something of the like. In college you will make many new friends and you won’t even miss them. Good riddance to bad garbage.
Focus on school and get ahead in life. NTA…again.
This must hurt so much – I’m sorry. AND one day this will be a hilarious story you tell, I promise!
This is extreme loser behavior from both of them, and everyone but them can see it.
A boyfriend that jumps that easily into another girls bed, isnt a boyfriend you need. If he can do this so easily, he has done it before and not told you.
Good luck and become something amazing
You can go to college with a clean slate. Congratulations
Good riddance to both of them. Move to your new college, make new friends and enjoy your life
Tell her she can keep your trash, you’ll always have a degree from ___.
I mean at least you didn’t peak in high school like they did. You’ll find much better friends once you’re at college who don’t drag you down and try to sabotage your success.
The best revenge is to just thrive and let them see that cuz they will stalk the hell out of you I’m sure once you’re away.
Good luck at college! ❤️
While it stings for now, it’ll get better.
Don’t get mad, get ahead
This person is NOT your friend.
Congrats on your college admission and also for losing two losers from your life. They both can rot for all you care. Have an awesome life without them and find someone who’d celebrate your wins. Those two assholes can go fuck themselves through their sad little lifes. They belong to the gutter.
..and forward to her mother.
She just shows you that here again she will be second at best
Text her a diploma from the school with your name on it and send “A dicking from him last 22 seconds. This will last a lifetime”
This didn’t happen.
She couldn’t get into the school you succeeded in getting admission to… So she became a sidepiece to get your sloppy seconds ex bf. 🤣 Dear lord, she’ll be pregnant with her 5th baby daddy’s twins before you graduate with your Bachelors. So glad you get to leave all the trash behind and didn’t accidentally carry any over to the university! Do well in your education cuz that ish is expensive!
So this very vindictive girl and this very dumb boy decided to sleep together to hurt you.
Yeah, you’re better off without either of them. Sorry this happened to you.
r/thathappened
How embarrassing for them. She’s a garbage friend. I’d tell her family exactly why you ended the friendship.
Leave them behind. The best revenge is living well, and you are about to meet people 100X more interesting than your ex-best friend and ex-boyfriend.
Don’t respond, don’t even acknowledge the betrayal. When she doesn’t get the response she wants, she will realize she sold her self to someone who is dishonorable, just to make her feel better about something you had nothing to do with.
This is actually great for you, your adventures going forward will be much better without these small and petty people holding you back.
“No sweetheart, you got a loser. Enjoy your shit life with my leftovers.”
This sounds fake as hell but on the off chance that it isn’t, congrats.
I’d say that all of the above points are devastating for her and it is a massive L for her.
I’d like you to make point number 3 come true by telling everyone the true story about what happened.
Take your time to grief, because even if these are bullets dodged, it does hurt.
Block them, do not give them the satisfaction of a response. But when people ask you what happens, just tell the truth.
After you’ve mourned the lose of your friendship and your relationship, hold you head high and take on the world. You are going to college and a whole new world is opening up for you.
This story is as real as a three-dollar bill.
“Thank you for helping me dodge another bullet. A loser man with his loser piece of ass”
“ I’m looking forward to meeting a quality man at college”
Buh-bye.
INFO: Is her dad still around? Cause you have a big card you can play.
Post the picture of both of them on social media. It’s gonna make both of them look awful.
AI BS.
NTA – congrats. Move on and don’t look back. It is hard now but as you get older you will realize what an immature b’tch your ex-friend is. Focus on the new college you will soon be at and realize you will be making a whole bunch of new friends.
Take the photo she sent and post it on Facebook for everyone to see. No comment needed.
NTA I know this sucks right now but honestly you’re about to go off and start living your life. That these two pieces of shit won’t be involved is a good thing, she’s done you a massive favour.
good luck in college! i hope you meet people who care about you and struggle through the next 4+ years together! and congrats on the admission! that’s amazing news but try not to let the pettiness spoil it! leave that in high school ♥️
Message her back to enjoy your sloppy seconds because you were planning on dumping him anyways when you moved away to college for a fresh start from everyone. They don’t get to hurt you unless you let them. Nta
best response to that is “okay”
Should of have replied back don’t cry when he cheats on you LOSER because he will cheat on her and probably come crawling back to you.
College is amazing. Congratulations and don’t look back. You don’t need those two losers in your life and you dodged a bullet.
Post a cute pic in sunglasses because your future looks so bright!
Are you going to sleep with her dad and breakup her parents’ marriage?
Reality check : when someone’s mad about your success , they were never your friend
Sounds like they made it easier to live your best life untethered and unbound. Enjoy college and savor every moment.
You will meet better people in college.
Which is not that hard as those two are crap.
So she dug in the trash like a raccoon and picked up the boyfriend? Wow.
Who needs enemies with a “bestie” and a “boyfriend” like those?
But imagine 10-15 years from now, you’ll be a successful one while these two will be the definition of “peaked in high school”
Oh my goodness. They just did you the biggest favor. Leave them in the dust and live your best life. They truly showed you who they are as human beings.
Sounds like you’re getting the better option. She’s wishing she was you. Hold your head up and ignore them.
1 you were never a loser
2 she was never your friend
3 he was always the bottom of the barrel in men, even if you didn’t know beforehand.
Again, congrats on making into uni, it’s great and something you can always be proud of. Now, for what to do you can choose to tell your friends a good version of what happened, or go public. You don’t even have to name her everyone will know.
The choice is yours, just know that no matter what you won in every aspect. Character, goals, academics and values
Update not your best friend.
Congrats! and NTA, life just did you a favor by showing how much of a loser those two are. Now go and live LIFE! Start your college year off as an adventure! Trust me, its one of the most exciting time of your life in meeting new people, friends and finding out what you want to do or be in life. Good luck! and your doing great!
Updateme
Find a winner to date at your new college.
Trust me, once you get into your college routine, they’ll be a distant memory.
Well at least now you can form mature relationships in college without them holding you down. OP, you’re better off without them.
Congratulation on getting into your dream school – and congratulations on dodging two bullets who were false friends! Wish you the best.
Yeah that’ll sting for a while. Then you make better friends in collage. Jealous friends are not good friends unfortunately
This has to be fake
Wouldn’t it be hilarious if he knocked her up?
Hey at least the best she can do is get a wandering mans attention. You’re going to college and getting an education. You win and you just dropped two losers who seem deeply unhappy with themselves and didn’t respect you.
NAH – You should thank her. When you get to college, you can date somebody who’s a smart and successful as you.
CONGRATS ON THE COLLEGE ACCEPTANCE!!! 🥳
Don’t worry about those two. They can go live their lovely trailer trash life together while you go off to change the world.
Besides, it was two high school years. I PROMISE YOU that there are real good men out there, so don’t fret over a little boy. You’re an adult now, so you don’t need to waste your time playing with those children
Ew what a bunch of weirdos, bullet dodged, enjoy all the new friends you’ll make in college!
This is wild energy.
But good news, The two pieces of trash took themselves out.
And remember every day you’re at college is a day she isn’t. Every new man that comes into your life is better than your ex.
You won.
There’s no way you can think you did anything wrong here. NTA obviously. These people are immature assholes.
Go to college, make new friends, enjoy life. Forget these two. It hurts now but one day you won’t give a damn about them anymore. It’ll just take time.