Title is the tl;dr.
Longer story: I’ve been friends with both for a while, about the same time. We’re all pretty close but they are definitely closer. Friend A recently found out that friend B was sleeping with A’s wife for a considerable amount of time last year. Friend A obviously wants nothing to do with B anymore and is on the verge of assault as the best case scenario. Friend A and his wife have mutually cheated on each other multiple times so it isn’t persay the textbook marriage, but thats besides the point for now.
I am generally in the “well if they didn’t harm me or my family, I personally don’t have a problem with them” camp, due to my personal almost quarter century experience with life and friendships. That being said, I’ve never experienced something quite like this. High school relationships, sure. But a grown up situation? Negative.
I just don’t know how to proceed with it. Like I said I am good friends with both of them but it’ll never be the same, especially since we will see each other everyday still.
Any and all advice is appreciated
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Banging a friend’s wife is one of the worst things to do to a friend (besides sexual assault of a wife, child, etc). I wouldnt talk to the cheating friend again. He’s total scum and you couldnt trust him with your wife.