Recently I’ve realized that when I feel comfortable with someone especially with a close friend, I become stupid and silly and I act like I’m not an adult and also I become sensitive and when I see a negative response from them, I even lose the ability to smile and I get emotional in that day
I’m really sick of this especially the sensitivity thing, it makes me feel that I’m unbearable from any mistake from them especially when my place in my friends lives is not assured that I’m as close as I think and I lose the ability to open up about it
I got a problem with my personality
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I am the same way. I’ve always wondered if anyone else had the same issues. Following!
Sounds a bit codependent. Speaking to a counselor can be helpful. Learning behavioral therapy (how to respond when you have certain feelings) should also help ypu tremendously.
Have you considered the possibility of being on the autism spectrum? This is coming from someone who has an official diagnosis and has been through exactly what you’re describing.