I (M18) have known this girl (F19) since middle school, we’re decent friends, but she’s always been closer friends with my brother (M21). My brother doesn’t know that I like her, or that I asked her out. Recently, I asked her out cause I’ve liked her for a while, but she rejected me. We’ve hung out a few times since then, and it seems like we’re kinda cool again.
Now there’s this other girl that works at this bowling alley that I got to pretty often, and I think she’s cute. Somehow this girl found out about the bowling alley girl, I’m guessing through one of my friends. I kinda wanna ask her for some advice on if/how I should talk to the bowling alley girl and how to ask her out. Would that be too weird or no? She also just found out that I’ve never been on a date, so idk if that changed her opinion of me or not.
Tl;dr: I (M18) wanna ask a girl (F19) for some advice since she’s known me for years.
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I dont see how it would be weird for her since she rejected you. In my mind, she might think you’re cool about it if you did go to her for advice about another girl since it would signal to her that you’re able to move on.
It’s not weird, go ahead and ask her. Just keep it casual and respectful. If you’re cool now, she might actually appreciate being asked