I’ve always wanted to quit porn and thinking girls the wrong way but everytime I want to change and do the right thing I always go back to it. Everyday it always goes through my day and the most I can do without porn is only about 2 days, please I really want to change and I know this sounds like a me problem but anything would help
How do you beat lust?
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You’re not stuck because you’re weak, you’re stuck because you’re fighting alone in the dark. Drag lust into the light, set traps at every door it sneaks through, and feed your soul with something far more powerful than pixels purpose.
You run away from it , distract your self. Do something that drains your energy
Also God helps
Get yourself an accountability partner. There’s a program called covenant eyes that monitors your screens and alerts your accountability partner when you’re viewing pornographic content. You don’t have to use a program, necessarily, but it is a good place to start if you have someone who you can turn to to help you break this habit.
Here’s the big thing tho. You can do it. It can be done. Do not let yourself give in to despair. If you’re a praying man, pray and hope in addition. If you’re not, still hold on to hope. You can beat this.
It’s ok to lust and it’s fine to look at porn every now and then.
It’s not ok to watch porn 5 times a day and it’s not ok to treat women (I’m assuming that’s who you’re referring to) as sex objects.
Write down everything you want and read them anytime you want to quit. Ditch the triggers, set boundaries, and get real about what you want for yourself.
You have to fead ur soul instead of satisfying the flesh!
Anything can be changed it’s always a choice.. if you really need sex then find a partner instead of going through it alone
You’re not alone. You’re not broken. Keep showing up for the version of you that wants better. That’s where real change starts.