My fiancé (30) and I (F) (30) have been dating for over 3 years. We met while she was visiting the city that I live in. She has family and friends that she frequently visits here. Once we started dating she stays with me every time she is in town. After 3 years I’m starting to feel like she is ashamed or embarrassed by me because I’ve never met any of her closest friends or her mother. I met her dad (they aren’t close) however that was by accident because be had to pick us up from the airport. She is spending time with me and I’m currently annoyed because she has her friends meet her at my house so they can go out but doesnt invite me with them or even introduce me to them. I tried talking to her about it and how it makes me feel, but she became defensive without hearing what I had to say. She automatically said that I’m complaining and that I’m being annoying. She has stated in the past that she prefer we make new friends together and that her friends aren’t my type of crowd.
She post on social media every time we are together but she hides the fact that shes with me.
She says shes in love with me and everyone knows about me but avoids me meeting them in person.
TL;DR my fiance and I planned to get married but after 3 years she still avoids me meeting her close friends and family.
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Do you really want to live like this forever?
That’s no way to live
This sounds like most stories about someone being a side piece
Ew. I believe you are who you hang out with. So if her friends are not “your crowd,” then she’s most likely not either. When you’re engaged, most people are SO in love, and SO excited to combine y’all’s life. I just find it weird. I think if you don’t know how she is around her friends or around her family, I don’t think you actually know her.
Do not marry anyone who’s family you haven’t met. That’s foolish.