My life just gets crazy each day, I’m always ruining into a problem. Anyways I started dating this dude, we will call him Tony. And yes the title is very confusing, apologies.
I met tony at my friends birthday party, we chatted for a while and got each other instagram. His post were him and some old family photos, his bio said 32 and single. At the time I liked him because he was cool and laid back, after some weeks of talking we started dating.
He stayed in his own home while I stayed in my apartment but he would come over sometimes. We were going on dates every week, like I thought we were the click but no it was not. I just have to laugh sometimes because this is really my life, the whole time Tony was lying to me.
Tony was married, like having a wife and KIDS!! Two, I only found out because my sister sent me a facebook post with Tony in it and it was a women next to him with a wedding dress on. I felt so stupid, he really got me. I did cut everything off with him, we had a huge argument. Blah blah we stopped talking but he would spam me from different numbers, I had it to him straighten out one day and he stopped. Doesn’t matter how manny dates we’ve been on, he still lied. I’m still mad I didn’t know but life happens, right?People don’t realize anyone can hide things good, you good be married to a killer and that’s crazy.
Thinking it was over because it’s been 2 month since we stopped speaking, it wasn’t. My instagram is private but you can request to text me, I don’t check the request box because I don’t expect people to talk to me. Anyways I check it, tell me why it was Tony wife. I didn’t respond right away because I went on her page, I’m telling you her page is filled with Tony, and their kids. From what I seen she was a cancer survivor, and is a SAHM.
She sent me a message so I read it, she said she knows her husband and I are having an affair and she’s disgusted how I’m messing with a married man with kids. She further explained that she’s lost their 3 month baby to SIDS 1 week ago, and Tony is nowhere to be found so she’s blaming me. Like this lady was throwing insults at me like crazy, I took an hour before responding. I told her to not blame me but Tony because he knew he was married.
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Backup of the post’s body: My life just gets crazy each day, I’m always ruining into a problem. Anyways I started dating this dude, we will call him Tony. And yes the title is very confusing, apologies.
I met tony at my friends birthday party, we chatted for a while and got each other instagram. His post were him and some old family photos, his bio said 32 and single. At the time I liked him because he was cool and laid back, after some weeks of talking we started dating.
He stayed in his own home while I stayed in my apartment but he would come over sometimes. We were going on dates every week, like I thought we were the click but no it was not. I just have to laugh sometimes because this is really my life, the whole time Tony was lying to me.
Tony was married, like having a wife and KIDS!! Two, I only found out because my sister sent me a facebook post with Tony in it and it was a women next to him with a wedding dress on. I felt so stupid, he really got me. I did cut everything off with him, we had a huge argument. Blah blah we stopped talking but he would spam me from different numbers, I had it to him straighten out one day and he stopped. Doesn’t matter how manny dates we’ve been on, he still lied. I’m still mad I didn’t know but life happens, right?People don’t realize anyone can hide things good, you good be married to a killer and that’s crazy.
Thinking it was over because it’s been 2 month since we stopped speaking, it wasn’t. My instagram is private but you can request to text me, I don’t check the request box because I don’t expect people to talk to me. Anyways I check it, tell me why it was Tony wife. I didn’t respond right away because I went on her page, I’m telling you her page is filled with Tony, and their kids. From what I seen she was a cancer survivor, and is a SAHM.
She sent me a message so I read it, she said she knows her husband and I are having an affair and she’s disgusted how I’m messing with a married man with kids. She further explained that she’s lost their 3 month baby to SIDS 1 week ago, and Tony is nowhere to be found so she’s blaming me. Like this lady was throwing insults at me like crazy, I took an hour before responding. I told her to not blame me but Tony because he knew he was married.
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She’s rightfully pissed, however in this case she’s pissed at the wrong person. You can always say he hid it from you and you lit him up when you found out.
In my case, no kids, yes to cancer and the crusty cunt KNEW he was married and so did his dumb ass. So yes, I throw every insult I can think of at her and him. Among other things.
OP,
IMMEDIATELY reach out to her and apprise her that he deceived you. Send images of any exchanges that validate your claim.
Then, Take to social media and tell ALL family, friends and acquaintances of the BULLSHIT he pulled. Pull no punches. Humiliate him..
Thats a hard spot to be in
Yes its his responsibility. Absofuckinlutely!
She might just need to hear it from you that you had no idea and you broke it off once you knew & that you’re also disgusted. That you’re sorry this happened to her & her family (bc.. aren’t you??)
Its not your responsibility to take care of her feelings but to clear your side of things, isnt it worth the few mins it would take to just say it?
You met at your friend’s bday party and your friend never told you that Tony was married with kids?