So there’s this girl that I’ve tobeen talking to for a while now she had recently revealed something to me that honestly really creeped me the fuck out she said the momment we first met she found me hella cute and really attractive because I reminded her of her father and she said that she always found her father really sexy and she had always dreamed and fantasized what it would be like to fuck her own dad now surprisingly this isn’t the first time ive heard this I personally know plenty of women out there who like to get with men that look identical to their fathers I even had one female friend of mine reveal to me that she always fantasized what it would be like to have sex with her own father.š¤®
The fact that both me and her dad look eerily similar is what creeps me the fuck out the most
idk ever since that day when she told me all of this I never seen her the same since then I’m honestly thinking about breaking things off with her what do you guys think I should do!?
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Yeah nah Iād be out too, thatās not just a red flag itās the whole damn parade. Youāre not a therapy project or a stand-in for her unresolved trauma.
you fs need to break things off bc first of all, what kind of a person says stuff like that?? pretty messed up thing to say and theres deffo more where that came from bc thats what she willing to vocalize, and she probs js keeps the crazier things as inside thoughts
Ewww wtf leave. You donāt need that kind of creepy charity case. Why is this even a question?
Yikes, yeah, this is not just a huge āI have huge daddy issuesā red flag, itās outright creepy. Break this off with her.
Itās creepy Iād walk away who wants a relationship with someone who thinks there dads sexy sounds mentally ill. Iād let her know when you break up with her that she needs mental help and sheās crossed a line
Definitely would break it off, thatās a very weird thing for her to say in general. Also a red flag like people mentioned. Donāt blame you for feeling uncomfortable at all.
Flip the script on her and tell her that’s why you like her so much also. Because she reminds you of your mom lol
I’d she can sexualise her dad, then what’s stopping her from sexualising her future kids?
Hey at least you know what you are in for. No mystery there
Yes.
NOW.
Look dude, I was a daddy’s girl when my dad was alive and I have never ever thought of my dad that way. This is definitely not normal for a girl to be that curious about her dad. Do yourself a favor and get away from her, she’s definitely disturbed š³š³
I was ready to write that yea, that’s probably fairly common thing. Growing up daddy’s girl. Idolizing him. Subconsciously trained what to expect from a partner, good or bad. But, you then took a sharp left turn there, down a dark dark alley. Up to you if you proceed, but if you do, be cautious and don’t expect picket fences and 2.5 kids. On the one hand, she obviously feels comfortable with you and that she can be honest. That’s great except she could just feel that comfy with dad and projecting it on you. Then one day you do something he wouldn’t. It could work out fine. Or it could crack her very understanding if reality.
Yeahā¦ thatās a huge red flag, man. Thereās a difference between gravitating toward partners with similar traits to a parent (which is pretty common and usually subconscious) and straight-up expressing sexual fantasies about a parent. That crosses into deeply uncomfortable and psychologically concerning territory.
If it creeped you out (understandably), trust that instinct. Youāre not being judgmentalāyouāre setting a boundary around something that makes you feel unsafe and disturbed. Youāre under no obligation to stay involved with someone who shares something that fundamentally changes how you see them
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It sounds a little creepy, but maybe her mom wants you too. š
Yeah that’s not ok
Are you sure it’s not a papa-complex type? Or is it just because you share a similar appearance? Idk man that’s weird. if it’s online, then it’s not a real person
Never mind, Daddy issues. This girl is Father Bothered.
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