45M happily married 23 years to my first and only GF. 4 kids. Love my job. Love life. ADD AMA

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Passing some time traveling. I’m a very optimistic, content, happy person. Love going into work, love being with family, can’t believe I found the perfect person to marry and still with her. ADD to the core, can’t remember 2 sec later that I put toast in the toaster, but I make do. Ask me anything.

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  1. Time-Company-1679 Avatar

    Congratulations for your successful life man! How did you and your one and only meet?

  2. VintageVirtues Avatar

    What is your annual salary

  3. Weird_Ad8673 Avatar

    What the key to your strong relationship?
    How do you resolve conflicts?
    What are the common grounds in your relationship?

  4. Slow-Championship847 Avatar

    what are your hacks for coping with ADD?

  5. Lylabell18 Avatar

    How do you stay positive and optimistic when things get hard

  6. Sauterneandbleu Avatar

    After all these years, how’s your sex life?

  7. boiseshan Avatar

    Are you religious?

  8. _distractedagain Avatar

    What do you love about your job?

  9. collapsedbook Avatar

    What’s your favorite bird ?

  10. infjnyc Avatar

    What career are you in? You seem happy and love going to work and also given ADD how do you manage work tasks?

  11. CWKitch Avatar

    Who did you vote for?

  12. greekcanuk Avatar

    That’s fantastic! I’m honestly happy for you and I hope it stays this way forever!

  13. CG_throwback Avatar

    Wanted to say Thank you for this post. Me and my wife have been together for about 20 years. Met her in the military. She is the only woman for me so we share a similar story. I don’t see myself with anyone else. It’s hard but we work on it. We argue a lot. We fight a lot but we also smile a lot. Laugh a lot. Also live on a tight budget and try to enjoy life. Cheers to finding your person.

  14. RagnarNoDebt Avatar

    If your wife cheated on you do you think you’d forgive her or ask for a divorce?

  15. Livinglikeadoctor1 Avatar

    Are you planning on having more kids?

  16. -Meowwwdy- Avatar

    Give me step by step instructions for your favorite carrot cake recipe

  17. CollieSchnauzer Avatar

    If you hadn’t met her, do you think you would have married someone else?

  18. CollieSchnauzer Avatar

    Do you read religious scriptures daily?

  19. kgcphoto Avatar

    No question. Just hi from a fellow only GF then turned wife club. We’ll be together 30 years next year and have been married 22 years.

  20. often_capable Avatar

    Have you only slept with her? Has she only slept with you?

  21. LegDue4772 Avatar

    Was it love at first sight? Did you look at her and think that this is the woman I’m going to marry?

  22. toledotouchdown Avatar

    Have you ever read a book that now in retrospect had a great impact on your life?

  23. KickIt77 Avatar

    Are you and your spouse college educated? Are you saving for college for 4 kids? Paying for college right now, feels relevant lol.

  24. notsafeatallforwork Avatar

    What do you do for a living?

  25. sombermostdays Avatar

    Have no questions, just wanted to say thank you for brightening my day by posting this😭 We need more stories like this 🙂

  26. Altruistic_Yak_3010 Avatar

    Congratulations. This is how it is supposed to be for all of us and how it used to be for people for thousands of years.

  27. epeters661 Avatar

    I hope this ages for you better than AMA has for me. Good luck 👍

  28. fake212121 Avatar

    What do u do for living ?

  29. fake212121 Avatar

    Where do u live? I mean, state/city

  30. Mullady_ChiKin Avatar

    What the hell did you do to get so lucky in life?! Haha but for real – no questions, just happy for you! Send out those good vibes to me 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  31. Training_Hand_1685 Avatar

    What do you do that you love so much?

  32. fistbumpminis Avatar

    You’re me, just twelve years older. Literally. Every part of that title. Lol. Keep on keeping on! What’s your favorite cling-to hobby that you do for yourself, and what’s the thing that you and your wife like to do the most?

  33. wannabe_msmarvel Avatar

    Is it weird that your kids outnumber you?

  34. Shmokeshbutt Avatar

    How much is your household income before tax, and which city do you live in?

  35. MissyLuna Avatar

    You seem a happy and optimistic person. I’d like to know: Was your childhood a happy one?

  36. Shuoinked Avatar

    What church do you go to?

  37. Dopapotomous Avatar

    Have you ever hit a point in your relationship where it felt more like a room mate friendship? How do you get past that? I almost feel anxiety when I try to imitate intimacy, at this point I almost feel unwelcome. It may be in my head but I’m unsure.

  38. Ordinary_Ice_796 Avatar

    Crazy the similarities here… I’m:

    46M, happily married 23 years to my first and only GF. 3 kids.

    Happy for you – congrats!

  39. Redacted_Robb Avatar

    Congratulations!

  40. SNS2323 Avatar

    Do you have a hard time finishing things you start? Like projects that are not time-consequential for example. I do well at work and when there are deadlines but cannot finish craft projects like a dollhouse