Moved in when I was 20. I want a way out now. Scared to make the big decision and then regret it. But for various reasons, I just cannot stay. Lost my job in february but still have around 11k savings. I have no idea how to change cities, or even countries. How to pack my stuffs. I don’t have many people I can be open about when it comes to my sufferings, wether it is family or friends. It is something I need to deal with alone. I just need a way out, and an organisation plan in order to do so. My soul is dying here.
I would like to move out after a 6 year relationship.
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Unpopular but can fix your problems temporarily… talk to a military recruiter.
There is no right or wrong way to do this but essentially what you need to do is make a list of the things you want to take you need to sort out transport for how to move them. You need to find accommodation and I would recommend paying a moving company to help. If you aren’t happy in your life then you are doing the right thing
same. 9 years and 5 years living together, I am staying with he’s family and now I want out. I know I can I have a job and I can Live alone but it’s been months now I am still thinking how 🥹
Leave now before the comfort of dying slowly convinces you it’s safer than living freely. Regret fades, but staying somewhere that crushes your soul will rot you from the inside with $11k, the will to move, and nothing tying you down but fear, you have everything you need to start over city, country, life.
Leave. Your soul already knows what to do, use that 11k to start over, pack light, get a one way ticket, and figure the rest out step by step.
First you will have to figure out what you actually want to do. Are you moving to the same city. Differnt ciry. Different county.
How long can you last in that new place with 11k.
How much stuff do you have and that you actually need to bring with you. Can you sell a bunch of it here then move and but them again.
There are a lot pf details that reddit can’t help you with.
Moving like this is going to be rough no matter what. Find where you want to go, apply to jobs in that area then when you find one you just gotta go asap. Find a cheap shitty apartment to stay in while you find something better. At least that’s what I’d do
Pray and try to appreciate yourself first