yes, especially if you have religious/ purity trauma. the important thing to remember is that ‘dirty’ is a social construct and being a virgin or not doesnt matter. It doesnt make you less of a human/ less of a ‘pure’ person.
I think it’s different for females. Majority of us don’t want to just have sex we are drawn to be intimate and have sex because we feel that intimacy. Develop feelings doing it. Do you feel dirty because you’re not in a relationship with him and maybe he just is using you?
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yes, especially if you have religious/ purity trauma. the important thing to remember is that ‘dirty’ is a social construct and being a virgin or not doesnt matter. It doesnt make you less of a human/ less of a ‘pure’ person.
Sure. Was the other person dirty?
Just remember. It’s not the kill but the thrill of the chase. Dirty eewww.
Sex is a deeply intimate act. It is.
Very intimate.
Don’t listen to people on Reddit who just dismiss it as a “casual act”, “basic need” that can be done with “anyone”.
It involves emotions
You sound like someone who sees it like. As do millions. Because that it is what it is.
Society has become awful hyper-sexualised: one night stands etc.
It leaves people depressed, used and objectified
I’d always say wait until marriage. But at the very least don’t do it with people you just met or don’t know or don’t trust
Short answer : yes
I think it’s different for females. Majority of us don’t want to just have sex we are drawn to be intimate and have sex because we feel that intimacy. Develop feelings doing it. Do you feel dirty because you’re not in a relationship with him and maybe he just is using you?