Been married for 15 years and have children together. Our life for the most part is good, we have lots of family adventures and get along ok. But for the past few years I look at my spouse and dont feel anything. I do love him but there’s no attraction, we haven’t been intimate in years and now it would be awkward. If I had to describe it, we are best friends and roommates. I crave emotional and physical connection so bad it is all I think about. My single friends that have divorced tell me the grass is not greener on the other side and im just being greedy because I do have a good spouse. Venting mostly but would like suggestions. We did counseling in the past.
Thinking of divorce
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Tell him please, ask him how do you feel and tell him how you feel. Difficult conversation 100%. Divorce is a last option and is a 10 step process unless they cheated or something. Its a relationship you build when times get tough. You’ll just be building again with another person over and over again . Please Just talk to him at least and try to fix this problem just like any other. Just try and articulate your feelings whilst being careful. A good man would understand
Talk to him and tell him how you feel! Ultimately sounds like you love him, just not in love but that spark can be reignited!
Have a conversation with him. Let him know that, while you are still friends, you want more — with him or someone else.
You two can be friends from different homes, and you can still be great parents. But you are running out of time to find a true lover.
Will be hard to do on your own but a marriage counselor could be priceless. Was for me.
Marriage is WORK! You guys need to start dating again and find ways to spice things up. The dating pool is piss water! Find a marriage counselor and yall do the hard work!!!