I wanted to ask guys and girls this question to see from both perspectives as someone that’s never dated and have no experience with guys and how to move as I just got out of highschool and now adults aren’t adults anymore but my peers😅
What’s the best indicator from a guys perspective that someone is playing in my face? Or like a guys not actually into you.
Obviously a lot of advice can be universally but we don’t all live the same experience thus my question haha.
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It’s gonna sound corny but for me I follow the actions speak louder than words philosophy. I don’t put too much stock into what people say more so what they do. So In my personal experience I’d say if you focus on what they’re actually doing you’ll get a pretty good sense just how into you they really are!
For women – guys want fast physical, with no investment.
For men – gals want fast investment, with little to no physical.
The “good” (bad) ones get this, so they’ll give a little to get, but in the grand scheme of things, women are way better at this long game than men are so it’s easier to weed us out.
If you’re always guessing how they feel you already know. Real interest doesn’t leave you confused.
She’s half my age.
Unfortunately most guys your age aren’t looking for a relationship they just want a booty call. Don’t let them talk you into it.
I’d suggest a church group or a group centered around something you enjoy doing.