I am 46M. I have a 43F GF who is from Brazil. Her adult son is 23M and is currently visiting her from Brazil. He is staying with her in her apartment. 4 days ago .. I was sitting on the couch with her son when she walked through the living room naked to go take a shower. I looked towards her son and he watched her the entire time she walked through the space. Boobs. Ass. Vagaina. All of it. Last night .. I came over to her apartment a little earlier than I had planned and I walked back to the bedroom and found her and her son laying on the bed together. The were interlocked in a face to face spoon and he has kissing her on her neck and cheek. As soon as I walked in .. they both jumped up and it was a very awkward conversation that followed ..
Apparently in Brazilian culture this is normal. I stated to them that in American culture this is not normal at all. To which they both laughed at me.
I have been with this woman for 6 months and there are no other issues. Am I the asshole for being completely sickened and turned off by this strange behavior and also considering ending the relationship for what I have seen?
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I need a Brazilian to weigh in here because that sure as shootin reads like incest to me.
Fake and stupid. Reported.
Is it actually her son though? 🤔
Nope. Thats not normal behavior.
Laying in bed interlocked… not naked I hope?
It’s not normal. But if it was considered normal why did they jump up
How do you know this about the Brazilian culture? Sounds pretty crazy to me. I don’t believe it.
Yeah that’s not normal. I’m going to say either that’s not her son or she’s got an incest thing going on there. Either way, time to look for another GF who isn’t crazy.
Your just the side piece, dudes the main stay.
You have every right to be suspicious. It may not be her son and he may be older than advertised.
this can’t be real… in no culture is making out with your son on the bed normal.
Run
Not normal wth
It’s all been said. How confident are you that’s her son, and I simply don’t buy that spooning between parent and adult child is ‘normal’. Look at it this way. If I’m wrong, and that’s totally normal in Brazil (it’s not) can you continue this relationship? If it’s not normal in Brazil (it’s not), can you continue this relationship? I think your path is clear.
Spoke to my BIL who’s been in Brazil 20+ years, married to a Brazilian woman and lives with her extended family
He reckons nudity amongst family members can be very common when swimming, changing, showering while someone else is in the bathroom etc
But eying up your mothers naked body while she walks to the shower is not normal or acceptable in Brazil and neither is lying wrapped together kissing her.
So No, this isnt “cultural” and you are NTAH
That’s not her son
How sure are you that that’s her son?
Time to breakup buddy
How did you see her vagina when she walked through the room?
Dude.
That’s not her son.
NTA
Come on …
… you sure that’s her son?
She is 100% fucking that dude…no idea if it’s actually her son or not, but they definitely fucking
…and no. That’s fucked up in ANY culture
Thats not her son bro
There is nothing like what you are describing in Brazilian culture. He is not his son.
You can’t be this dumb. You’re trolling us.
This is so shit and fake, tell me one culture where it’s viewed as appropriate for family members to cuddle up and neck kiss, blatant karma farm.
Maybe he’s her man from back home, to whom she sends her American money too. He just came in town to visit. 🤷♀️
Yeah that ain’t her son. Unless she’s into incest! 🤢🤮
Get. Out.
NTA – brazilian here, this is not even remotely common in Brazil
I didnt met any person or family in Brazil that does that and I’m 43 years old
Lmao are you really this stupid, its her boyfriend
Brazilian here. That’s not her son, bro.
Like, my mom would walk around naked in front of me and my sister (both girls) and sometimes when I’m visiting she’ll ask me to keep her company while she showers (I sit on a bench by the door), but we never make out lol.
Even without the making out, I think the fact that she’s naked in front of her SON is a bit weird.
Dude that’s her boyfriend. You are the wallet.
Yeah, not her son. A cousin maybe 🤣
That ain’t her son
What? What you described is so not normal for any culture. Its hard to believe its even true its that taboo.
Its not her son…………. Your being played.
It’s not her son……duh.
I don’t know anything about Brazilian culture, but they wouldn’t have jumped out of bed at the sight of you if they thought what they were doing was normal. They both acted guilty. If this was truly normal behavior, it doesn’t make sense for both of them to act as though they knew it wasn’t.
Brazilian here.
Dude, this behavior isn’t normal. Staring at parts of your “mother’s” body is weird — that’s not something that happens in our culture, much less kissing her in such an intimate way.
The fact that they were scared and laughed at you says it all. NTA.
You should end this relationship — it seems like you’re getting in the way of their relationship.
NTA And that’s clearly not her son. They are using you. I am blind and I can see it.
Your brazalian gf has a boyfriend.
Half of my family is Brazilian. This is not normal.
Rage bait post lmaoooo
Pretty soon that interaction is gonna pop up on porn hub
SON KISSES HIS BIG TIDDY BRAZILIAN MOM IN NECK 4:00
NTA, RUN AWAY
Definitely getting Tommy Boy vibes from this. If it’s real…
I don’t think it’s her son and if it is, she’s a sexual deviate cut your losses.
Dude she’s cheating and that isnt her son and if it is she’s sleeping with him, yikes
It’s her step son NTA
Not her son at all lol
That ain’t “Her Son” Your her “Sugar Daddy” she’s using you to get her green card. You better run away as fast as you can.
Not her son. You’re being played. Nudity is common though.
Eww. I think I need therapy after reading this
Culture has nothing to do with what’s going on here. Staring while she’s completely nude, in bed and interlocked and kissing neck and cheek….that’s not her son.
YTAH
That is not her son
Nta no way that’s her kid 😂 Brazilian or not that’s just weird
Thats not her son.
That’s not her son, that’s somebody entirely different.
All signs says that’s not her son🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
> Apparently in Brazilian culture this is normal.
Where did you get that from? lol
I swear I’ve seen this lifetime movie. NTA.
Bro… this isn’t her son. She’s using you and disrespecting you to your face and laughing at you about it too.
“I am 46M. I have a 43F GF who is from Brazil. Her BF is 23M and is currently visiting her from Brazil. He is staying with her in her apartment.”
FIFY.
Sounds like someone has watched a lot of step mother porn on on pornhub. 👊
Tommy Boy
Brazilian here. We are much more affectionate and comfortable around family than other cultures. Nudity is also okay in some families, like “”Yuck, my dad just in a towel coming out of the shower.” But no one was looking at anyone. This is very strange. As for staying in the same bed, it’s normal here, we lie down talking, even with my cousins and aunts Because we’re close. But spooning is absolutely bizarre. Are you sure he’s her son? Sometimes foreigners lie about relatives. If he really is her son. I’m sorry, but there’s something seriously wrong with your family.