Men, what’s a good scent that ISN’T vanilla?

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I know every man is different. I have seen a post similar to this, asking what scents men preffer, and 90% of the responses was vanilla. I can’t stand vanilla personally. The smell gives me a headache, which actually sucks because almost all perfumes or body lotions for women always have vanilla undertones and it sticks out like a sore thumb to me. But I still want to smell good to men.

I’ve always been in love with rose scented things, but I’ve realized the hard way that not a whole lot of men like that smell either. I was told that my particularliy favourite parfum, Ange Ou Demon, scared some dudes away (no I do not drench myself in it, either.)

So, I, a female, wanted to ask you men what’s a good alternative to vanilla?

Comments

  1. Neutreality1 Avatar

    Coconut works well and has a similar soft noted smell that isn’t overly floral or perfumey

  2. Zestyclose-Newspaper Avatar

    Cucumber melon. Smells like the 90s

  3. AyahaushaAaronRodger Avatar

    The smell of a woman. It don’t matter what she’s wearing. Anything feminine smelling on a woman is 😍

  4. Honest-Literature-39 Avatar

    My wife has one that smells like gingerbread. Angel I think. It’s wonderful.

  5. nim_opet Avatar

    As in perfume? I can’t imagine how awful vanilla scented perfume would be; to me it signals food, not humans. You should smell good to yourself and wear whatever you’re comfortable with.

  6. DarkDoomofDeath Avatar

    On a woman? Something subtle and floral, but the type depends on the guy: might like rose but despise lavender, for example. A light berry or citrus can go over well as long as it doesn’t remind you of cleaning supplies.

  7. American_Stereotypes Avatar

    Citrusy scents are usually reliable.

    One of my exes had some kind of perfume that smelled like strawberries. Can’t remember the name, but that shit was amazing.

  8. zobbyblob Avatar

    I think a lot of men like food scents… I love citrus.

  9. clarinetpjp Avatar

    Orange, pear, violet, sandalwood, spices

  10. Imverystupidgenx Avatar

    I prefer citrus to vanilla

  11. gre2704 Avatar

    I love woody smells like Cedar, Pine, Fir, etc.

  12. GotWheaten Avatar

    Cinnamon, coffee, fresh baked bread

  13. Mission-Story-1879 Avatar

    Sandalwood….or leather, iykyk

  14. Clintman Avatar
  15. 93didthistome Avatar

    Sandalwood. Tobacco. Bergamont

  16. FuckTumblrMan Avatar

    Wood smoke on a cold wind

  17. Karate-Wolfman Avatar

    I have a cologne that has rose in it. That being said, one of my favorite scents is cedar. I also love the smell of key limes.

  18. Will94556 Avatar

    tf lost cherry? My girlfriend only wears vanilla so idrk hahahaha

  19. KYRawDawg Avatar

    I’m with you, I can’t stand vanilla. I like coffee.

  20. No_Nectarine6942 Avatar

    Personally hate vanilla.  Also Personally earthy tones.

  21. Low-Lake1491 Avatar

    The smell of freshly spent ammunition. In the army we called it ozone.

  22. happychillmoremusic Avatar
  23. M69_grampa_guy Avatar

    Sandalwood or Lavender. I’m not sure how the two of those would work together. A lot of people like coconut but I despise it.

  24. -Blixx- Avatar

    Whatever makes you feel comfortable.

  25. nomisr Avatar

    This is apparently a thing..

    Bacon scented perfume

    https://wicked-good.co/products/bacon?gQT=1

    I think there’s also coffee scented perfume but you may just smell like you spilled coffee on yourself

  26. PariahExile Avatar

    Bergamot is in a lot of masculine edt’s and is a nice neutral alternative to vanilla.

  27. ialsohaveadobro Avatar

    I don’t want to be gross, so let’s just say that if you’re a woman, you have access to it

  28. halpinator Avatar

    Balsam, rosewood, oak, sandalwood. The sound hole of an acoustic guitar.

  29. SkiDaderino Avatar

    Victoria’s Secret Strawberry Fizz lotion. I doubt they make it anymore, but it made me absolutely feral.

  30. Dio_Landa Avatar

    Lavender, pine, coffee, fresh baked bread.

  31. malfunctioninggoon Avatar

    Cardamom, palo santo, clove

  32. c3534l Avatar

    sandalwood

  33. Ratnix Avatar

    Strawberry. I hate vanilla perfumes.

  34. One_Economist_3761 Avatar

    I like lilac. It smells nice.

  35. klystron88 Avatar

    This is like asking what music you should listen to to impress a guy. Just be you.

  36. DoctorSubject897 Avatar

    Men go insane when I wear Lancome Idole, which has a definite rose note. The description also lists vanilla, but I don’t find it vanillic at all.

  37. knowitallz Avatar

    Rose is tough. Because when it gets old it stinks like rotten flowers. Because it decomposes.

    Lavender is a much better scent. It is floral and simple and relaxing.

  38. The_Cow_Tipper Avatar

    Chanel Coco is my favorite women’s scent (am a straight dude)

  39. myers5987 Avatar

    Prob not for perfume but I(48m) love the smell of lavender.

  40. Friendxx Avatar

    Fecal scent is really sexy, makes you feel dirty and want to do the dirty deeds.

  41. Barkeep41 Avatar

    Mint.
    Firewood.

  42. jsbach90 Avatar
  43. huuaaang Avatar

    Just smell clean and whatever scents your hair products have, I guess. I have to like a woman’s natural scent. I don’t like perfumes.

  44. RammRras Avatar

    Compared to vanilla nearly everything is better.
    On women I prefer leather, amber or the more fresh mandarin.

  45. BarneyBungelupper Avatar

    Oud. I worked in Saudi Arabia for a little while, and every morning they would burn this in the office. It smells fantastic. Especially while you’re drinking Turkish coffee.

  46. runningblind77 Avatar

    I have caramel scented hair putty. It’s awesome. Wife loves it.

  47. Imoldok Avatar

    I absolutely love Cloe. Don’t know what they have in it. I love the smell of fresh ground starbucks coffee.

  48. Imsoamerican Avatar

    I would recommend picking a smell that either you like or you think best represents you. If a guy doesn’t like how you smell, then obviously that guy isn’t the right one. It’s an easy way to weed people out, maintain your happiness, and be yourself.