There’s no big problem, but also… no spark. We get along, but I feel kind of emotionally distant from it all. I can’t tell if I’m staying because it’s comfortable, or because it’s right. Has anyone figured out how to tell the difference?
What do you do when you’re not sure if you’re actually happy in your relationship, or just scared to be alone?
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Yes, but how in the world could this be explained
Sometimes the absence of problems isn’t love it’s just quiet comfort, and deep down, you know the difference.
How would you feel if your partner was dating someone else?
You should talk to your partner about this
Yea imagine your life without that person, if its better then you are better of alone, but when you do that don’t imagine only the stuff you don’t like but everything, for example if tomorrow you woke and they were gone completely no contact, how would that day go, will you be less worried and happier, if yes, then that’s your answer, will you be significantly miserable because they are gone, yes, the answer is no, if nothing changes, good or bad, then it doesn’t matter which of the two you choose
I suggest you talk with your partner, and also make no mistake, I am not sure what you mean by spark, but relationship is not only uphills, learning how to navigate the downhills is more important if you want long and stable relarhionship