Some people say they enjoy the intimacy of sex and even a bit of post-sex cuddling, but when it’s time to actually sleep, they’d rather do it alone — in their own bed or room — to get better rest.
They argue that it’s not about emotional distance or lack of affection, just about sleep quality and personal space.
Personally, I feel like that would be a dealbreaker for a lot of women — especially in serious or long-term relationships.
So I’m curious:
Would this be a red flag or dealbreaker for you? If so, why?