When being intimate with a woman for the first time – are you usually surprised by how their naked body looks or is it usually what you imagined?
When being intimate with a woman for the first time – are you usually surprised by how their naked body looks or is it usually what you imagined?
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Surprised it’s how I imagined
No
Hahahaha…. It’s always more than you imagine!
Its always what I imagined. Can’t think of a time that it was surprising or different.
If I’m being shocked by how their body looks when they are naked I’m doing something wrong when I’m dating.
Usually I’m just horny and happy to be involved.
As long as they don’t try to fake us out by using body shaping clothing or push-up bras, by the time the clothes come off our hands have informed us of the shape of their body.
Usually I’m not the one thinking anymore.
When I was younger, I was disillusioned by all the commercialization of the female body and wondered why they didn’t look like they were portrayed in media. But once I realized that there was charm in the imperfections and focused on more important things, I found that I appreciated it more.
It’s never what I imagined lol but it’s never bad either
What does surprised mean? I dont think I am surprised anymore but just generally excited to see her naked.
Yes I have been shocked, I still did it anyway
I’ve only ever been surprised one time in my life.
Besides that, I’m just happy I get to see her naked.
I’ve usually already seen her at the beach and seen 95% of her skin, so I’m not too surprised when I see 100%.
Usually we’re both super drunk on the first time but not really surprised. They’re more or less the same. The only time I was surprised was in Thailand when I pulled the underwear off to find a dick.
My ex girlfriend had this massive meaty vagina. Without getting too graphic she was very self conscious about it and I realized pretty quickly why she hated beaches since something that large would be very hard to conceal.
It was super sensitive and I would go down on her for literal hours as I found it sexy as all hell. Literally something I didn’t know I would like.
Contrary to whatever some other women who are content creators might say about this sort of thing, us men are way less critical about most things.
I’ve almost always been pleasantly surprised.
Surprised how big her tits were since they sag down rather than sticking out.
Sometimes a little better, sometimes a little worse, usually accurate. Now and again you’re really surprised, but most of those times it’s pleasantly surprised. YMMV if this is winter time in a cold climate.
Usually I’m not thinking about it, I’m just excited to have fun. Sometimes I’ve been the very slightest bit disappointed, but never enough to give it more than a moment’s thought before I’m fully happy again.
You’re describing two different things. Intimacy isn’t sex. I have had sex with dozens of girls, many of them were not intimate encounters. Do they look like i think? Well…the women where i live aren’t wearing birkas so i normally have a pretty good idea what they look like
Sometimes I’m surprised, other times I’m not.
More or less what I imagined. Sometimes I’m off by a bit depending on the type of bra they usually wear.
I feel like the female form is always far more aesthetically pleasing nude.
Modern outfits have a way of squishing or almost deforming female bodies and once it’s all out of the way they can settle into the shape that is more in alignment with what it’s supposed to be.
Or, they are dressed in hippy coutour and it’s basically a 1400$ burlap sack that reveals almost nothing about what’s underneath and that too is a grand reveal.
We always exchange nudes before, so… it’s a variation on a theme, but it’s always exciting to peel off the clothes and the entire activity leading to nakeness and also post nakeness.
Sure… If they appear one way but are secretly wearing a physics defying girdle that reshapes their whole figure. I might be “surprised”.
But otherwise, every woman I found sexy clothed, I’ve found even sexier naked.
The only variable that matters at that point is our sexual chemistry which even if not great initially can be improved upon unless we’re completely incompatible.
I like boobs
I mean, you can USUALLY get an idea of what to expect before hand. There are of course finer details one won’t know ahead of time, but the basics are there for men to observe. Once a guy has been in the game for a bit, he learns to anticipate how certain clothes are hiding or amplifying different attributes.
Inexperienced guys who watch a lot of porn might be surprised when reality doesn’t match up to plastic surgery, meth, coke, and lots of editing. I suppose that’s probably true of instagram now too.
Why do you ask this?
Lately I have surprised. Photos are great, but that in person experience with the proper scale has been fun.
If I’m naked with a woman I’m not doing that much thinking.
I’d be shocked if 99% of boys hadn’t seen some porn prior to losing their virginity.
There was one time with a girl who had lost a lot of weight and I was not expecting her to have as much loose skin as she did.
Neck up, she looked like a healthy weighted woman, neck down I could tell that she did a lot to get to the body size she was at.
Not gonna lie, it took me out a bit, but I didn’t make it her problem.
I don’t paint a picture of what to expect. That is a pretty sure fire way to be disappointed.
Been thinking hard, not sure ive seen anyone fully naked, other than a beaches maybe 30+ years ago (and even that was from a distance).
I dont watch porn but i would think now anything i saw wouldnt match up to what ive seen in movies, for me its not something that will never happen to it really no longer bothers me. I think for most they take for granted what they have access to in real life and seem to think everyone gets what they have.
I don’t think that I’ve ever imagined *exactly* what her body would look like naked.
But I’ve also not really been surprised, either, since the women I’ve been with have all had two breasts, arms in the usual places, a butt, a set of female reproductive organs, etc.
Plus, when I fantasize about women being naked, the exact details aren’t generally what I’m trying to reproduce with 100% true to life accuracy.
The one real exception was more due to a combination of beer goggles and more corsetry than usual than anything.
This is a great question because I felt bad once, because I totally ruined the mood by trying to hide my pouch. I’ve been told I am very beautiful but I thought it was only my face. I felt I had a decent face but my stomach area I was extremely insecure about. Well, I thank that insecurity for being such a 🐓 blocker. 🙄
Usually? No. You remember those. The first big shock was all the way back in high school. She had a decent rack and I was exited about then. I was really disappointed when I set them free and they headed for the floor. Poor girl. She got backshots.
It’s more common to find A cups hidden under padding. You basically get used to that.
It’s also not the way you want to find out you’ve been dating a single mother.
Thankfully not a lot of horror stories in there because I mostly dated under 25s. Been married for a long time too so I’m safe.
You think the lights are on?
Give how often women today send nudes it’s rarely a surprise.
Nope, just grateful to be admiring the view
Yea I’m often surprised. I guess it’s more because every time it happens I’m just surprised I got this far to begin with.
Also each one is unique and let’s say it’s someone you’ve been interested in for a while and thought about a bit. What you imagine is rarely what you get to unwrap. That’s not a bad thing. It’s often better than I imagine tbh.
There have been some women that wore clothes that shaped them quite different than what they actually were… but even than I was never really disappointed.
I’m happy to see their body.
I’ve been pleasantly surprised and unpleasantly surprised multiple times.
Too hyped and horny with anticipation to have complexe thought
Nice.
How much i love a woman walking around naked after sex,,,the silhouette, and that ass 😍 jeasus heavenly
Appreciative.
its always something you should be grateful for.
Usually surprised
It’s always a surprise.
It’s one of the exciting things about being in a new relationship for me, there is NO telling what people look like fully naked until they are, even after having seen them in a bikini or maybe underwear, the parts you have never seen before are always unique.
Canadians often look better in the their clothes
I’ve always been surprised (in a positive way)
Happy to be a part. Typically you have a general idea based on their physique and hygiene. Unless she wears layers of very loose fitting clothes.
I’m usually pleased & enjoy us getting to know each other’s bodies. It’s either a time to smash or a time to enjoy exploring.
Visual surprises haven’t ever been a problem… it’s the nasal ones that get you…
She’s perfect to me
It’s the penis that always surprises me.
Many Asian women wear padded bras.
Being married to my ex for 12 and knowing her for 18. I was real lucking on the pussy roulette. And after dating a few ladies I realized I’m a little more worried I might get something unsavory than what I’m used to. Which I enjoy going down, but I won’t if it’s not half way to my standard. And I totally understand cause not all the ladies will enjoy my what I have to offer either. So ya it’s what it is.
Im usually dissappointed because im used to looking at porn and no woman IRL can compare to that.