My gf tested positive she went to the er the other day for stomach pain and called me this morning im going to get tested idk what i should do. We’ve been together for 3 weeks.
Gf got chlamydia 3 weeks into relationship
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My gf tested positive she went to the er the other day for stomach pain and called me this morning im going to get tested idk what i should do. We’ve been together for 3 weeks.
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Totally possible she got this before meeting you. Do some googling about when symptoms show up for women.
She could have had it for a while there’s no early symptoms
Unfortunately symptoms of this sti can never show up or even show years later.
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Now yall bonded for life
she possibly had it before you both started dating. sometimes it takes a while for symptoms to show. a smart thing to do before having sex though is getting tested so you don’t risk getting or passing an STI/STD. good thing it’s something that can be cured with just antibiotics.
Idk if it helps but i was a virgin proor to meeting her as in no sexual encounters before
Welp now you know your girl fucks without condoms
My gf once tested positive with Chlamydia 6 weeks into our relationship, blamed me as being asymptomatic, and dumped me. Naturally, I got tested (OUCH) and negative for all STDs. Never had one before or since. Showed her the test results. it didn’t matter. Still dumped.
My stomach hurts rn do I have chlamydia, I have raw dogged a couple chick’s like 2-3 weeks ago
1.Go to the Dr
2. Get your pills
3. Take your pills
4. Get a new GF.
5. USE CONDOMS
Obviously you’re breaking up LOL
She most definitely could have contracted this before you two were together. It is curable and is in good measure for you to get tested. I would continue to test yourself as a peace of mind/safety precaution to ensure good health.
Best wishes
Quite possible she got it before you. Its why its important to get tested before you engage with a partner.
She either got it before or after the relationship started. What kind of symptoms she’s experiencing can help somewhat inform us if it was before but we will never know for sure. You have to decide if this is a deal breaker.
And please get tested yourself regularly
She cheated
Sounds like my ex Ben.
Chlamydia can lay dormant for awhile, huge chance she got it before you. Do your own research, get tested, make your decision then.
Oh boy.
No advice nor suggestions from me .
Sorry .
Get yourself tested. Find another girlfriend.
Does she handle koala piss?
Oh my! Raw dogging the last fool(s) and raw dogging you less than 3 weeks into your relationship. You should probably get tested for a whole bank of diseases. Good luck.
Probably got it off of the toilet seat or maybe the bench at the public pool that is what happens to my whore girl all the time
Break up
Hi! Get tested, but if you haven’t used condoms then go see a doctor and get antibiotics. Aren’t you feeling at least an itch around your urethra? That’s the asymptomatic version. Symptomatic chlamydias feels like peeing millions of needles.
Women often don’t catch it in their urethras, but in the vagina. Often, it just itches, until passed to the male. Asymptomatic chlamydias can travel fast. From penis to throat, from throat to another penis, from that penis to vagina, etc…
Stomach pain and Chlamydia in women means “pelvic inflammation syndrome”: she was carrying it for an extended time without symptoms, it traveled up and did some damage. When left unchecked, it can affect fertility.
Don’t let this ruin your relationship like it happened to me in my teenage years.
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Slow clap?
Becarful with her she’s having unprotected sex
think about why neither of you have been getting regularly tested. If you actually want to be in a relationship communication is important.
Get Tested, support her through her testing/healing.
Then work on building a relationship with a foundation of communication if you are not gonna blow up about her having been a person prior to meeting you
This is why it’s wise to use condoms or get tested between partners. This would BUM me out if i were you man. Sorry to hear.
Damn she was out there letting dudes raw dog her , you found the one 🥴
How is she your girlfriend after 3 weeks and clearly she has been having coitus in that 1-3 week that it takes for symptoms to show up. So the question is, was it with you alone or were you having sloppy seconds this whole time😩
You should both get a full std panel done. She could have had it before you got together. Just to be safe though you both want to know what you do and don’t have. Any time anyone leaves a relationship people should get tested. If you have sexual contact in between relationships get tested regularly and you should get tested prior to sexual contact in a relationship.
It’s pretty likely that she got it prior to you being together. Some STDs can be dormant for a long time. Some will show up immediately. It all just depends. But 3 weeks in is most likely someone she had sex with before you got together.
You should handle the infection first and foremost and advise her to let any prior sexual partners know ASAP.
Nurse for 15 yrs. 9/10 it’s the partner who is wondering how they could have this withjn x amount of time ijs
Right now (at least in my area) there is a massive spike in the amount of STIs. In particular….Chlamydia and Syphilis.
People aren’t as afraid of AIDs like they were, and forget the other things. Also, “hookup culture” is not consequence free.
I’m not saying this to shame you at all, but to let you know you aren’t alone and it’s common.
That being said – I think you both need to be kind to eachother because these things can lay dormant for a long time. It’s treatable. From this point onwards let go of the shame and see where the relationship takes you.
Took me about a week to experience symptoms. Get tested for everything. Then figure out if she slept around while yall were dating. Proceed from there
My advice wouldn’t be wise.
When was the last time she was tested? She could have gotten it anytime between her last test and now. People can have it for a LONG time without symptoms, i highly doubt she cheated on you when you’ve only been together a few weeks.
3 weeks is nothing. My now ex wife was told 7 years into our relationship she had chlamydia.
Gf “hey i got an std YOU NEED TO GET TESTED”
You “strangers of the internet what should I do?”
Talk to a doctor, my friend, and keep it in your pants for a while.
Leave.
Either way, please get tested.
You get treated, you can have it asymptomatically, Chlamydia is not a big deal. Both of you do the treatment. It doesn’t mean anyone cheated
Everyone should be getting tested at least once a year whether you are single or married.
Some viruses like HIV can take months before tests are positive
Some tests can be false negatives
18% of women and 25% of men have cheated on their CURRENT partner r
She’s has it longer than 3 weeks, to get to the point of severe pain and an er visit she’s probably been asymptomatic for a couple months. Just go to the doc and test, if it’s negative wait another week or two and retest. If it’s still negative ur good, if it’s positive you got a week of meds and then ur good.
The fact she had some other grubby chlamydia cock inside her is enough to just end things ofc
LMAO welcome to the club
Luckily its “just” chlamydia. Easily treatable. It has a long gestation period so an honest conversation is all it takes
if u cant trust her as to how she got it just end things so u dont resent her for this
yes get tested
When I was very young, I had unprotected sex with someone much older than I was. I got chlamydia. Carried it for years before getting a diagnosis.
Get tested right after you get rid of her.
You 100% could have had this for years and never shown it. Both of you go get the medicine for it. Take it. Don’t fuck until it’s all cleared up. You’ll be fine.
Get tested. It’s treated with an antibiotic. It is curable.
You could have given it to her
you could’ve had it and given it to her without showing any symptoms. she could’ve also had it before meeting you and didn’t know.
You fucked raw 3 weeks into a relationship?
You really want to be with someone who got the clap?
What are you looking for here, dude?
You’ve only been dating three weeks and either one of you could’ve had it before.
Either practice safer sex or keep it in your pants.
This is why you always need to wear condoms, no matter what.
You need to get tested too
What do you mean you don’t know what you should do?
Go to the doctor and get treated.
Oh they’re going to put a stick up your pee hole
You met a new girl, and she has an sti… what’s the question? Stay or leave… after you get some meds. Pretty simple situation there junior lol
Just get treated. She probably got it before you. it’s not that big of a deal.
For your next partner, I insist before you both decide to play gential jenga with each other. Both get tested, so this doesn’t happen again.