My ex has threatened to hire a private investigator to dig into my personal life and contact women I’ve known. I’ve asked her to stop, but she continues to push boundaries. I feel harassed and intimidated, and I want to know what legal protection I have if she follows through.
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She is a narcissist and the only solution is to cut all contact with them. Trust me, I dated one for a year and it wasn’t fun.
File an order of protection with he court. Include any “investigators,” If she violates it she will be arrested.
She’s bluffing about hiring a PI. And if she does manage to contact any other ex of yours, she’ll just making herself cut contact. Stop even indulging her by communicating. Just block her. Block all contact, never respond to anything.
Talk to a lawyer. The answer will be dependent on where in the world you live
P.I.s are expensive. Encourage it.
Why should op care? What does she do for work so that she can afford a private investigator?
Was with someone like this for 9 years, on and off, during the offs she tried every attempt to ruin my life, finances, and even my freedom.
Do whatever you can to not make any contact with this person.
She clearly is stuck in the past. Ignore her.
Cease and desist letter from a lawyer. Strongly worded
block, and move on. It really that simple.
If you want to get really fancy… Move and don’t give a forwarding address. That the ultimate power move. Then you won’t have that crazy knocking on your door everynight.
i recently went through this with an ex.
i had to use a pi for a abusive alcoholic ex, who’d follow me around town & steal from my apartment.
it was a trauma i shared to be transparent. she claimed that it was okay to use it on me … despite not having any valid reason or comparison.
just leave & let her waste her time/ resources
I’d ask your ex’s to tell the PI about your other families in Morocco, rural Japan and bora bora. And that you were a drug smuggler with cartel ties and involved in weapons shipments to Ukraine. And you ex pay for all that investigation…