My ex cheated on me several times, he used to watch soft porn and he also kisses a girl behind my back, this thing ended up breaking me. I got into a relationship in college but he broke up with me in a month cause he apparently wanted to focus on his career but he promised that he wanted to marry me. My current boyfriend has been with me since 4-5 months now and I haven’t found anything as such, but I seem to overthink about his small actions, for example he liked her posts and followed an actress recently and that makes me super jealous and insecure. He isn’t a serial liker, of someone who likes women posts and reels online, he doesn’t even use social media much ( that’s what he tells me) we recently got long distance and I am not able to eat or sleep properly and I have got big dark circles because of how much I am overthinking about him maybe doing something wrong at the same time he’s in his internship searching for jobs so he isn’t really able to give me as much time, I keep overthinking about everything and what might happen in future when I also see a friend of mine got a boyfriend who’s obsessed with her and that makes me very jealous, he’s super sweet to her and has left flirting and stalking women everything, my boyfriend is a good person too, he doesn’t flirt or stalk women but him liking one post made me compare him and fuck up my mind. Guys suggest what I should do to make my relationship and myself healthier and also whose fault is it here and what are really the signs of healthy relationship.
TL;DR – I AM INSECURE ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND AND I WANT TO CHANGE IT
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not one individual woman will ever please a lustful man
I mean this with everything in me don’t ignore your instincts just try to prove them right before making any moves
If watching porn is cheating, you are doomed.
If watching porn isn’t cheating, then you should not have added it to the story.
Seek therapy and let him know how you are feeling so he is aware and can reassure you. Liking pictures of actresses isn’t bad. Everyone does it and I’m sure you do the same(could be wrong)