My girlfriend (21F) and I (21M) have been together since we were 17. And things are very good and I love her to death but, it’s just one thing that sucks.
Right now we’re having sex about 2-3 times a week which we have said is perfect. But she is not the one initiating it, it is always me. I don’t necessarily mind it but, it doesn’t make me feel desired.
She says she very much enjoys it and we are both finishing satisfied. I know she finds me attractive due to compliments and actually being with me but I sometimes feel like she’s only doing it because I want to, and not because she wants to.
I’m not saying it should be her every time but it would feel great to feel desired and wanted. We have had small conversations about it but nothing has changed. Is there a way I should go about this?
TL:DR – My girlfriend doesn’t initiate sex with me and it makes me feel unwanted. How should I go about it?