She is too accepting of poor treatment from others. As adults we all moderate our responses, but there is a level of disrespect that needs to opposed. Seeking approval from people that disrespect you tells me a lot.
She can’t sit by herself and be at peace, constantly needs people around her to validate her existence and engages in extreme behavior to numb her feelings
You can get a hint by how she looks at herself in the mirror and the trend of how she dresses herself including the amount of makeup… I see examples of this at the gym and I’m female.
Promiscuity, rejecting love and affection because of feelings of being undeserving, tearing others down to build themselves up, lack of motivation, refusal to take compliments, engaging in self destructive behavior, letting others dictate her life.
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Her weight.
doesn’t take care of herself in obvious and not so obvious ways.
do you want to avoid those women or seek them out? or avoid looking like one?
Insecurity, and it goes for men as well.
Self-blame
Constantly hooks up with guys and then complains that no one wants a long-term relationship.
General insecurity
If she makes comments putting herself down
If she ask you questions like do you prefer X type of woman? And she’s not that type of woman.
sex work
unsolicited nudes
Cutting scars
If they ain’t got a dad…usually is also a sign.
Pushing away men that treat her well because she thinks she doesn’t deserve it or whatever
Immediately rejecting and disagreeing with compliments instead of appreciating them
Willingly engaging with drama
Tearing down other women to uplift herself
When she brags too much about herself, to the point that it’s unrealistic. It’s a sign that she’s trying to compensate for something that she lacks.
Promiscuity, dressing overly revealing. Constantly seeking validation from women and men.
She dates an absolute douchebag
Constantly seeking male validation while putting other women down.
She is too accepting of poor treatment from others. As adults we all moderate our responses, but there is a level of disrespect that needs to opposed. Seeking approval from people that disrespect you tells me a lot.
Tolerating disrespect just so she still has a man in her life
The man she’s dating
Overweight
Clothes that don’t fit her
Struggles with eye contact
Never smiles
To many body modifications/ tattoos and piercings.
Don’t you talk that miss…
God Don’t make no junk!…
https://youtu.be/BHNFnEGnjiY?si=FOYnCPZT8LRxpUPJ
She wants a boob job.
She can’t sit by herself and be at peace, constantly needs people around her to validate her existence and engages in extreme behavior to numb her feelings
Promiscuity.
OF and porn.
Serial dater and cheater.
Blaming all her problems on men.
Hates on other women.
Unresolved daddy and mommy issues.
Princess behavior.
You can get a hint by how she looks at herself in the mirror and the trend of how she dresses herself including the amount of makeup… I see examples of this at the gym and I’m female.
A few that come to mind:
I feel like a lot of the comments in here represent a difference in values, not that a woman doesn’t love herself.
being fat
tattoos
plastic surgery
fillers/botox
neon-colored hair
astrology/witchcraft
taking mind-altering medication
double digit body count
drinking problems
“all men are…”
“if you dont love me at my worst…”
etc
Has sex with me.
She’ll say it out loud, is constantly self deprecating, sleeps around/jumps from relationship to relationship to seek validation
It’s a dangerous state of victim mentally that hard to break, and if it doesn’t things will never change or get better.
People who hate themselves usually tell you very quickly that they hate themselves.
A long list:
Promiscuity, rejecting love and affection because of feelings of being undeserving, tearing others down to build themselves up, lack of motivation, refusal to take compliments, engaging in self destructive behavior, letting others dictate her life.