Exactly how it sounds.
I’m 39f and the mother to a 17 year old boy, as almost every boy in this day and age, or forever really, he’s an absolute little shite. Love the kid to pieces but fucking hell.
Anyway, he NEVER does his laundry, no matter how much I drum it into him! I tell him again and again, he had no problem with it till he was 14 or so? He literally just won’t do it now. Additionally, his room is a shit tip.
Basically though, he leaves dirty underwear, socks, jeans, whatever all around the house. The other day it really pissed me off when I found his dirty clothes in a pile on my bed when I’d just came home from work because he expected me to wash them whilst he went out.
I grabbed that pile, went to his room, and dumped it on his bed. I left his fucking grotty underwear on top, like a cherry on a cupcake!
He came home with his mates, which I didn’t know he was going to do, and now won’t speak to me because I’m a “Whore” and a “bitch” who’ll “Never understand” and I embarrassed him.
I get why he’d feel embarrassed but I don’t think I’m the asshole, or at worst a soft or justified asshole. It’s fucking dirty clothes, it’s not like he doesn’t know how to use the bloody washing machine.
My husband came home, my son told him, and now my husband says I’m “acting like a raging, petty bitch” and I’m “not 18 anymore”, even went on to start saying it’s obvious I’m nowhere near 18 because I’ve let myself go. He says I was too harsh and if I just told my son to wash up he would and I didn’t have to embarrass him.
But that’s the thing, my kid won’t do anything I fucking ask! He listens to his dad and makes me seem like the evil version of fairy godmother!
I’m a bit pissed up writing this and I went to my home office so sorry for any spelling mistakes or whatever.