How do I move forward with my jealousy issues regarding my boyfriend’s past behavior?
I [ F 20 ] have had issues with my boyfriend [ 21 M ] since a couple months into us dating (we’ve dated 7 months now). He used to enjoy looking at sexual images of anime characters as well as sexual cosplayers, and it came to my realization after we started dating. He has given me plenty of reassurance he’s over that now and doesn’t do any of that anymore, but I’m constantly insecure about it. My jealousy issues make me hate the characters he used to like and the whole anime all together. I want to watch his favorite animes with him, but the thoughts of those characters always fog my mind. How do I move on from this and get over it?
TL;DR
I’m jealous about my boyfriend’s past because he liked sexual content, and it’s always on my mind regardless of reassurance. How do I get over it?
Comments
He still does it.
The question is whether or not you can be OK with it moving forward.