He reaches out every 2-3 days, he asks about me, my day etc.. and then try to talk sexual, everytime!!
I told him it’s not ok and that I don’t want to feel like this is all he cares about in me, he denies and says ” I don’t know why this happens but I’m really attracted to you and this is never intentional ”
but still, he do this every single time!
Should I tell him to never text me again? or that I’m overreacting?
and what does it mean when men do this??
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he wants to bang. if you don’t want that make it very clear and block him.
NOR it does seem like he’s more interested and getting physical, and do some love bombing or bare minum effort to communicate beyond flirting.
This isn’t mixed signals, it’s a pattern. If he keeps crossing the line after you’ve drawn it, he’s not flirting he’s testing your tolerance.
The guy I was seeing for awhile did the exact same thing. Spoiler, if they won’t respect you saying you don’t want to talk sexual they aren’t likely to respect your boundaries in the bedroom either. He’s giving you an out, if I were you I’d take it. Of course I say this knowing none of the other details/context of your relationship with him so take this with a grain of salt.
Not overreacting. You should cut him off if that’s what you want. What this means is that he is not a man and has no right calling himself a man for being so disrespectful
Does he text you at night/late evening? There’s a good chance that he’s already horny when he starts texting and asking about your day is only an excuse. Either way, it’s a red flag for me.