What should I do ? 19f 20M 6 month relationship

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Me and my boyfriend are long distance this is my first long distance relationship but not his. He takes long to respond to me and when I say long I mean like 5-6 hours sometimes even a whole 12-24 hours. I okay with a few hours of no response because we both have lives outside of each other and when he did respond we had good / meaningful conversations but now when he responds there is no substance to our conversations plus all day with no response is crazy. I let him know how it made me feel and he apologized but there was no change. I work a full time job all year round and I am in school as well, he doesn’t work during the summer. I don’t like to repeat myself so I am contemplating on if I should just leave him and find someone else who will make time for me. We haven’t even been together for a year. Should I keep trying with him or let him go?

TL;DR my boyfriend isn’t answering me in a timely manner we are long distance and only see each other every few months. Should I leave him?

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  1. pepper701 Avatar

    This isn’t even a relationship at that point. My partner and I work full time and still communicate daily within reason, the longest we go is maybe a work shift if it’s too busy or when we are with friends for a few hours. Find someone who can make the time for you!