I’d be pissed but there’s other factors in play. If this is a new relationship, knowing me, I’m probably over-invested and taking it way too seriously rather than talking about where we’re at individually like mature adults but hey, im pansexual and havent had a relationship with literally anyone so pinch of salt with my comment lmao
If I actually loved her it would feel awful. If I just liked hanging out with her and nothing more. Keep fucking her but that’s the end of the relationship
I seem to recall the woman, who was a beauty queen, who had a Mormon missionary kidnapped and tied to a bed for the weekend. It made all the news in England at the time….The poor man…son🥲
I have been in this situation myself, and I did feel flattered and proud of myself for a short time.
But eventually I felt like I didn’t get enough out of the relationship. I realized I needed more from a partner than just sex. So I knew I had to end things, since I knew it wouldn’t be good for me mentally in the long run.
It can be very hard and difficult (it was for me, since I really liked her. And the sex was great), but if you want and need more love and emotional connections – and not only sex – then you should end the relationship.
This is the best compliment you can get as a man! 😎Now that everything else out of the way you can just focus on unlocking more pleasure for her and for yourself. Just talk openly about what she is curious to try and go for it! Pure joy ✨
Break up. I actually do want to get married and have a family, not just fuck. Fucking is fun and all but we clearly don’t see eye to eye so there’s no point in continuing.
This happened to me for a year and I can tell you it’s not a good feeling. I had the best sex of my life for a year, twice a day was the minimum, sometimes up to five. A lot of of good things came from there, I lost weight, changed my diet.
But I’ll never see relationships, sex, and trust again. I don’t want sex that much anymore and I don’t value it because it doesn’t feel right to me. And I’m kind of terrified of having it with my next partner.
She used me in other ways too. It’s been six months since I broke up with her and every day I feel like I’m re defining my reality.
I knew from the jump and she was kinda my sugar momma. Still somewhat is but I pick up big bills here and there. Anyway we’re married with a baby and im workin on putting another one in her so idk what to tell you bro. Hope it works out. Can’t be that bad.
I had a gf back in the day, and we dated for about 6 months, then broke up, but continued as FWBs for a while until I met another woman. So yeah, just sex is possible, as long as both parties understand the deal.
I would suggest her to include her friends and make the most of a sinking ship, pork all of her friends and leave with the satisfaction of sexual exploration.
It wasn’t great learning the fact that her friend only introduced us because she (my ex) needed a rebound after a bad break up with the guy she dated before me. When we were going through our nasty breakup she told me she only planned on using me as a fuck buddy until she emotionally got over the breakup between her and the first guy, and never really planned on developing a romantic connection with me.
No girl uses guy for sex, you are that person’s non loyal betrayed. Do you love the person?
What does it feel like?
It hurts because you’re being used. It’s never just for sex, it’s the ‘maybe’ & ‘almost(s)’ these feelings are the worst, I’m sorry.
Id probably reevaluate our relationship as us being friends with benefits. If I want more than that I’d move on. If I’m happy with that (like if I was in my early 20s) then I’d just continue on happily. But with the knowledge that we’re now more like fuck buddies, cuz that’s all we really were to begin with
View it as a short term relationship or friends with benefits situation while I start looking for a new person to date or break up with them to give myself time to recover before finding someone new.
Comments
“Oh noooo. How terrible.”
…what sex?
Renegotiate the relationship. Does the fucking have to stop?
Feel flattered
What ❓that bitch
I’d be pissed but there’s other factors in play. If this is a new relationship, knowing me, I’m probably over-invested and taking it way too seriously rather than talking about where we’re at individually like mature adults but hey, im pansexual and havent had a relationship with literally anyone so pinch of salt with my comment lmao
I can’t even comprehend such a thing. No woman has ever JUST wanted sex from me.
Using me for money? Sure. But sex? Please.
If I actually loved her it would feel awful. If I just liked hanging out with her and nothing more. Keep fucking her but that’s the end of the relationship
Thank god, I thought she only wanted my money.
I’d get even and use her for sex as well… that’ll teach her.
At least I would be getting some then.
just don’t be used for money and it’s fine
I seem to recall the woman, who was a beauty queen, who had a Mormon missionary kidnapped and tied to a bed for the weekend. It made all the news in England at the time….The poor man…son🥲
Believe it or not, this is actually an impossibility.
id be extremely confused
I’d be very proud of myself.
There’s literally a song about this. Listen to “self esteem” by Offspring, that is if you’re looking for actual advice.
I have been in this situation myself, and I did feel flattered and proud of myself for a short time.
But eventually I felt like I didn’t get enough out of the relationship. I realized I needed more from a partner than just sex. So I knew I had to end things, since I knew it wouldn’t be good for me mentally in the long run.
It can be very hard and difficult (it was for me, since I really liked her. And the sex was great), but if you want and need more love and emotional connections – and not only sex – then you should end the relationship.
Treat her as a friend with benefits
This is the best compliment you can get as a man! 😎Now that everything else out of the way you can just focus on unlocking more pleasure for her and for yourself. Just talk openly about what she is curious to try and go for it! Pure joy ✨
Break up. I actually do want to get married and have a family, not just fuck. Fucking is fun and all but we clearly don’t see eye to eye so there’s no point in continuing.
I wish that’s all she used me for
That is exactly what my last ex did to me
That’s all I’ve ever wanted
Well 17 yr. Old me would say Cool
What would I do? I would make sure that she doesn’t find out that I know and I would concentrate on not changing a goddamn thing.
If I had a girlfriend I’d just be using her for sex too so it seems fair.
Since she won’t get jealous then, get her to pick up women for threesomes.
[removed]
Id be worried if she’ll see others
I’d brag about it to anyone who’d listen.
I’d know she has pretty low standards.😄
Thank her and return the favor…
Been there. Done that. Kept going back just for that alone. Even after we broke up.
I’d act accordingly.
Username doesn’t ☑
How about finding out your wife used you for sex, comfortable living and money and still fucked someone else…yeah.
I’d prefer dating to marry so hopefully she tells me sooner rather than later
The perfect wife, marry her
[removed]
It just mean we would be friends with benefits, which is perfectly fine in my book.
I’d ask her why she wanted to be my girlfriend instead of just being FWBs if it was all just about sex.
This happened to me for a year and I can tell you it’s not a good feeling. I had the best sex of my life for a year, twice a day was the minimum, sometimes up to five. A lot of of good things came from there, I lost weight, changed my diet.
But I’ll never see relationships, sex, and trust again. I don’t want sex that much anymore and I don’t value it because it doesn’t feel right to me. And I’m kind of terrified of having it with my next partner.
She used me in other ways too. It’s been six months since I broke up with her and every day I feel like I’m re defining my reality.
That’s not your girlfriend. You’re just her dildo, with feelings.
I knew from the jump and she was kinda my sugar momma. Still somewhat is but I pick up big bills here and there. Anyway we’re married with a baby and im workin on putting another one in her so idk what to tell you bro. Hope it works out. Can’t be that bad.
I had a gf back in the day, and we dated for about 6 months, then broke up, but continued as FWBs for a while until I met another woman. So yeah, just sex is possible, as long as both parties understand the deal.
Sounds good to me.
That sounds terrible……what man would want that….
You just keep on using me….until you use me up….
Get her pregnant. That’ll teach her a lesson.
A woman once put her number in my phone under the name ‘sex slave’. That was fun until the crazy reared its ugly head.
Would be like hitting the lottery.
I would be stoked. That’s why I would be with her as well.
I mean no matter what scenario, you will end up getting hurt if you stay so the answer is pretty obvious, isn’t it?
Brag about it for the rest of my life.
Try ALL the positions and all the orifices.
What answer are you looking for, lil bro?
Lol if only she would
I’ll offer myself again to be used by her knowingly this time around
OP: Is your username relevant to this question?
Keep fucking her
Here for the comments. OP, keep swingin that hog
I would suggest her to include her friends and make the most of a sinking ship, pork all of her friends and leave with the satisfaction of sexual exploration.
That’s how my ex was.
It wasn’t great learning the fact that her friend only introduced us because she (my ex) needed a rebound after a bad break up with the guy she dated before me. When we were going through our nasty breakup she told me she only planned on using me as a fuck buddy until she emotionally got over the breakup between her and the first guy, and never really planned on developing a romantic connection with me.
Going to actually depend on how emotionally attached you are. If not overly, then I’m gonna keep getting laid.
I would be happy.
You must be bummed out. I feel your pain. NOT!!!
Never thought i’d hate this until i had it. Sex feels a lot different when you realize it’s all about fulfilling deep insecurities associated with BPD
No girl uses guy for sex, you are that person’s non loyal betrayed. Do you love the person?
What does it feel like?
It hurts because you’re being used. It’s never just for sex, it’s the ‘maybe’ & ‘almost(s)’ these feelings are the worst, I’m sorry.
Play dumb and keep letting her…
Id probably reevaluate our relationship as us being friends with benefits. If I want more than that I’d move on. If I’m happy with that (like if I was in my early 20s) then I’d just continue on happily. But with the knowledge that we’re now more like fuck buddies, cuz that’s all we really were to begin with
Celebrate with another night of sex
It depends? How good was it?
View it as a short term relationship or friends with benefits situation while I start looking for a new person to date or break up with them to give myself time to recover before finding someone new.
Thank her