Struggling

r/

I’ll keep it somewhat short. Basically i just turned 20 a few weeks ago and feel so lost as to where to meet women. I go to college but I’m not sure that would work too well. It feels like the girl’s that have hit on me in college just want something quick and that’s not what I’m looking for. I’m pretty confident in my looks and my looks aren’t the issue nor is it my personality it’s just who I am. I don’t want to use a dating app because it feels unnatural, im honestly a little awkward when I first meet girls & I mostly keep to myself. Last college party I went to I was sitting on the couch at the house and wasn’t really feeling the energy. A girl approached me when I was on the couch but she just wasn’t my niche. It’s like all of them just want something quick. I’m not someone who wants attention on me and I feel like it’s turning into a bad thing because I’m not letting myself be known. I’m a whole different person when someone gets to know me but It’s like nobody knows who I am because I don’t put myself out there

TL;DR Not sure where to meet women and put myself out there as a 20M